Hola amigos de la comunidad, espero todos se encuentren muy bien. Yo la verdad no estoy muy bien que digamos
Desde noviembre del año 2018, comencé a recibir mensajes por mis redes sociales de un supuesto "admirador de la universidad". No le di gran importancia al asunto porque para mí que alguien me confiese que le gustó, le parezco atractiva o algo por el estilo no es motivo para hacer un escándalo, es algo que paso por alto, con ignorar o dejarle en claro a la persona que no me importa es suficiente, como fue el caso con este chico
Recibí otra serie de mensajes de este chico contándome una infinidad de problemas personales pero decidí bloquearlo y decirle que no me llamara ni intentara buscarme y la cosa paro hasta mediados del año 2019 cuando me escribió por Instagram otra infinidad de cosas, ya en esta oportunidad mis amigos le dijeron que dejara de molestarme y hasta mi mamá intervino y nuevamente dejo de molestar.
En Enero de este año, recibo un mensaje de feliz año bastante turbio de su parte. Cosa que decidí ignorar porque por lo que sabía el había Sido expulsado de la universidad por no aprobar sus materias, así que yo, tranquila. Pero para mí sorpresa esta persona seguía accediendo a la universidad y buscando la manera de saludarme o hablar conmigo aunque le gritara mil y un veces que no se acercara. Me cansé de esta situación y acudí a la dirección de servicios y seguridad de mi universidad a hacer una denuncia, cosa que se estaba tramitando antes de la pandemia, pero, por obvias razones se pauso todo
Comenzó la pandemia y afortunadamente no volví a saber nada de este ser, yo feliz. Hasta ayer, que con un mensaje bastante largo y turbio reapareció para desearme feliz inicio de navidad. Me dió asco y temor su mensaje porque literal describe varios días de mi vida universitaria lo cual demuestra que estuvo observandome. Cansada de esto le comento a mis amigas que había aparecido el fastidioso y una de ellas decidió comenzar una campaña por Twitter. Todo se difundio muy rápido, en seguida muchas personas comenzaron a apoyarme y hasta se ofrecieron a ayudarme en el ámbito legal
Estoy estresada, asustada, quiero que esto termine, no quiero que más nunca me moleste, es horrible pasar por una situación así, recuerdo la impotencia que sentía cuando el se dirigía a mi sin mi consentimiento que me lleno de mucha rabia y a veces siento que no seré capaz de controlarme. Afortunadamente ahorita el abuso hacia la mujer es un tema bastante delicado y me he visto rodeada de personas que conocen sobre el tema, pero yo solo deseo que todo termine, ayer y hoy hay Sido días muy estresantes. Hoy no quise ni ir a mi ensayo de danza y la verdad solo quiero llegar a enero 2021 y que todo esto haya Sido un mal sueño
Cuidense chicas, chicos también, el mundo está rodeado de personas tanto buenas como malas, yo jamás Vi esto venir. Y es una situación muy desagradable, si pasan por algo así, hablen, no se queden calladas, que la ayuda llegará, yo no me imaginé que tantas personas estarían a la disposición de ayudarme y la verdad es que me quedé impresionada, así que, no se queden calladas si están pasando por algo así.
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Hello friends of the community, I hope you all are very well. I'm not really well that we say
Since November 2018, I started receiving messages through my social networks from a supposed "university fan". I didn't give great importance to the matter because for me that someone confesses to me that they like me, they find me attractive or something like that is not a reason to make a scandal, it's something that I overlook, ignoring or making it clear to the person that I don't care is enough, as was the case with this guy
I received another series of messages from this guy telling me an infinite number of personal problems but I decided to block him and tell him not to call me or try to find me and things stopped until mid 2019 when he wrote to me on Instagram another infinite number of things, this time my friends told him to stop bothering me and even my mom intervened and again he stopped bothering.
In January of this year, I received a rather shady happy year message from you. Which I decided to ignore because as far as I knew he had been expelled from the university for not passing his subjects, so I was reassured. But to my surprise, this person kept coming to the university and looking for a way to greet me or talk to me even if I shouted at him a thousand times not to come closer. I got tired of this situation and went to the director of services and security of my university to make a complaint, something that was being processed before the pandemic, but, for obvious reasons everything stopped.
The pandemic began and fortunately I never heard from this being again, I was happy. Until yesterday, when he reappeared with a rather long and murky message to wish me a happy Christmas. I was disgusted and afraid of his message because it literally describes several days of my university life, which shows that he was watching me. Tired of this, I told my friends that the annoying one had appeared and one of them decided to start a campaign on Twitter. Everything spread very quickly, and soon many people began to support me and even offered to help me in the legal field.
I am stressed out, scared, I want this to end, I don't want it to bother me anymore, it's horrible to go through a situation like this, I remember the helplessness I felt when he addressed me without my consent that filled me with so much anger and sometimes I feel that I won't be able to control myself. Fortunately, right now, abuse of women is a very sensitive issue and I have been surrounded by people who know about it, but I just wish it would all stop. Yesterday and today have been very stressful days. Today I didn't even want to go to my dance rehearsal and the truth is I just want to get to January 2021 and that all this has been a bad dream.
Take care girls, boys too, the world is surrounded by people both good and bad, I never saw this coming. And it's a very unpleasant situation, if you go through something like this, talk, don't stay quiet, help will come, I didn't imagine that so many people would be willing to help me and the truth is that I was impressed, so, don't stay quiet if you are going through something like this.
That is definitely harassment and very brave of you to speak out. Stay safe.
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