If you can beloved by God, He will create love for you in the hearts of people.
Because the heart of every human being is under his control.
And if you run after people for human satisfaction, this race will never end.
Because people are never satisfied; However, it is not permanent.
As his tastes change, his preferences change, he wants to taste innovation.
If he doesn't like you, he will throw you away in such a way that he doesn't recognize you.
But our Lord Allah Karim Subhanallahu Ta'ala is not like that.
That is why it is said, "It is difficult to please man, it is easy to please Allah."
If you please Allah, you will get both this world and the Hereafter. On the other hand, by sacrificing one's own personality, one can temporarily satisfy people, but only for a short time, to gain worldly benefits, But in the Hereafter you will find nothing.
So, if not, limit yourself to that.
There is no need to show extra fascination with anyone; Will be disappointed later.
"What is the matter with me that I do not worship Him, but He created me?" [Surah Ya-seen, verse 22]