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RE: In Introspection: Talking Validation & Acceptance

in GEMS2 years ago

You've said a lot and you are right about so many things. Sometimes we don't know this and that is why we feel so heartbroken when we see the people we think love us drift away.

In life we've done some things that are not really good and we always try to hide it away from people because we know they might not love us again if they found out about such things but it should not be like that all the time.

We all have something that we have done that if it was someone else, we might not want to associate with them again, so when it happens to us, we should just learn to accept it like that and make sure not to make sure mistakes again.

Indeed, some things happen in our lives that can either make people love us or hate us but I will love to advice that we should work on ourselves instead, we should always try to see the good in someone especially if they acknowledge their mistakes.

Thank you so much for sharing this with us grand mentor 🥰.

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Thanks for that one. Well, let me see, my experiences have shown me some very dark side of life.

There are things we can control and things we cannot, what hurts is even seeing others... Their friends, acquaintances drift away based on what they cannot control, but like you've said. We can always try to work on ourselves, be better people, in character and mind.

I think I like to say I'm evolving, and I know the things I can control and the things I cannot, but then, no one should be judged.... Disliked based on the things they cannot control.

Hahaha, thanks for coming through.

There are things we can control and things we cannot, what hurts is even seeing others... Their friends, acquaintances drift away based on what they cannot control

Hmm, now this is another short way to put it, there are indeed some things we can't control and if the once we love or love us see those things are they willing to let it go and love us still? Well, we can't really say until it happens right?

It's a good thing to know what we can control and what we can't control, I'm happy you are evolving and that's a really good thing, you knowing what you can control and what you can't will help you manage some of these things.

It's a pleasure to always come through, I always get to learn something new, I'm the one who should say thank you 😊🙏.