Trust is tough to obtain and easy to lose.

Following my post Fallacy, somehow, I wanted to express this thought since it's been on my mind when I was writing my previous blog.

When I was thinking about it, I almost had the want to post it on my personal social media account. However, I know that in the end, it would raise negative opinions about me. Someone might then use the opportunity to outdo me by highlighting my imperfections as well.

Do you know the saying that learning starts from home? Well, that includes the good and the bad. Lucky are those blessed with grateful families who only know good things for everyone. I'm not saying that I'm not in that kind of family, but I'd like to say I found myself stuck between good and bad. Good when everyone is happy and laughing, bad when somebody is struggling and angry.

Now imagine that you've been in this environment since you were young. How would a child perceive every situation when unpleasant things might weigh heavier on the mind? I could think of; fear, discouraged, traumatized, isolated - any of these might harbor remorse whenever unfortunate things happen. The growth and a supposed happy life of a child would be different, far from what others may see. The child might begin to hide feelings until he/she would deem that no one needs to know what they truly feel inside.

Thus, the beginning of not trusting anyone but themselves might develop within them.

How can you overturn such an incident and revert everything to how it's supposed to be?

True, that these might only be words and thoughts from me. But in any other part of the world, such a thing happens to unfortunate youngsters. Is this the correct process to strengthen their individuality as the younger generations? Who gets to say what is right and wrong?

Any kind words or feedback might enlighten a single thought. Thank you.