I woke up this morning with the saddening news of my mother's death, she's been very sick since 2015, and she's been battling partial stroke. She was very hypertensive and she's been this way since 2014 the year I lost my dad and it was obvious that the pain never left her. She was a hard one, always finding it difficult to take meditations. Due to her hypersensitive natural she was placed on medication.
She never took her medication and she never adhered to the doctor's words. Due to this I had a very feisty relationship with her. It was like she was knowingly putting her life on the line and I was wary she might die one day due to this. Our relationship was further strained and due to this she left Lagos Nigeria, for the East and cut all forms of ties. I was sending money through a third party to make sure went to the hospital and fed well. She was fine then till some days again when her health deteriorated and unfortunately she's died. I was once told @selfhelp4trolls about my relationship with her and how it was strained, little did I know her life will end so soon.
This is happening when I finished a house for her and rented a place to start up my life while the bear market is in full session, this literally translates to how penniless I am. This was the week I was planning to go to the hospital because of my over two months long illness, but now, I'm I deeper waters and literally scared for my life.
The south east is currently a red zone for young people due to the agitation for Biafra coupled with the pain of losing her, being the first born and being sick. I'm currently devasted.
It's literally the worst period of my life since 2014 , which was that same year my dad died. I'm on my way to do the burial arrangements with her family.
Sorry for the late reaction but have been away for a while. My condolances, wish you and yours strength.
Thanks a million, I totally appreciate this.
I lost my mom this year too. I swear it's a different feeling ever since. I dream about it almost every time. It is really hard.
I hope you find happiness in life.
Mine has been sick for a really long time, I guess it was inevitable, sorry for your own loss too.
Stay strong buddy. Don't get pulled under, it's a lot of rough stuff hitting at once but you got this! Sorry for your loss. I believe that you can still make peace and have a relationship with her. As far as your health and money, things will surely get better. I'm always there is you wanna talk
Thanks a million, it's been hectic, sometimes the reality hits hard and it feels too unreal to deal with
You're tough Jose... You'll pull through.
Sorry about your mom, seeing as you obviously loved her and took care of her in her lifetime I'll say you definitely are a good son and she'd have died knowing that
Thank you, it's happened when we least expected it. It's overwhelming, hoping to pull through
Sorry to hear that.
Thank you, I appreciate
Oh dear! 😬🥺😭
This is so sad and the situation around it makes it even more devastating and I can only pray you stay strong through this... May her soul rest in peace 😔
Safe journey and success with all the arrangements
Yeah so sad, thank you for coming through
I'm really sorry about this, sorry for the loss, please take heart, the Lord is your strength.
Thanks a million, I'm grateful
I feel your pain bro, May her gentle soul rest in perfect peace. Stay strong
Thank you for the kind words
I lost my dad 2011 after a brief illness and my mom in 2017 after 2 major surgeries. Life goes on and we have to stay strong
This is really sad 💔... I'm deeply sorry for your loss 😢. I can't even imagine what you must be going through now. Please stay strong ❤️.
May the soul of your mother rest in perfect peace. And may God grant you and your family strength and solace 🙏.
So sorry about your loss, man.
Receive our condolences and best wishes for things to get better in your life.
Patience, health, resignation, and courage!
Parents find ways to live in us after they've parted
I'm so sorry for your loss. I understand how hard this is for you and I'm praying God gives you and the family the strength to go through this process. I also pray God grants her paradise and make all she has left behind graceful. Stay strong brother. May her soul rest in peace
I'm very sorry about the loss of your Mom. You will be in my prayers @josediccus.
Thanks Eric, I appreciate you.
Bro... This is so so so sad. Jeeezz. Why on Earth will something like that befall your family? It's so sad.
I'm sending my condolences to you Bro.
Please calculate your movement and try to be sure of the situation of things in the East before making and travel. God will see you through.
Man, this is rough. I can only imagine how this feels. Sending you all the strength that you need. What you have been doing ( for her ) is amazing and I have no doubt that you will eventually get out of this even stronger.
Damn just reading your post with goosebumps, this is heartbreaking. 💔
Am really sorry about the passing of your mom, may she rest in peace. Death is something very painful to accept, I know how you feel from experience of losing my parents.
In the midst of it all be strong for yourself and your loved ones still alive, be safe out the for the burial.
Sorry to hear about your loss, please accept our deepest condolences on the loss of your loved one.
Accept my condolences, may her soul rest in peace, AMEN.
I am sorry for your loss Buddy. God in his mercy will grant her eternity. Take heart and stay strong Bro.
May God grant you and the entire family the fortune to Bear this great lost💔
So sorry about the loss of your mom. I can imagine how it feels.
Please accept my condolences!
so sorry about it man.
Hey dear, so sorry for your loss. Please take heart. May God comfort you and yours. I am sure she is resting in a better place.
May her soul rest in peace. I can't say I understand what you're going through, because I really don't, but I I know that you'll pull through eventually. I am so sorry for your loss, please stay strong.