In each of us there is a certain particularity that makes us different from another, you have something that I do not have and that remarkably makes you unique, as it happens that with each one of us, but all of us absolutely have the ability to remember moments lived experiences, already these, are good or not so much.
They say that remembering is living, do you believe in this definition? As I said before we all have the capacity to have or keep memories in us but not all the memories or part of their past in a constructive way in their life, there begins a distinction of the particularities of each one of us, in the application.
Some people remember to arm a pitched war motivated by hatred, fury, while others remember with negativism to be stronger, in these cases I think that they are wounded people who feel the need to put on a breastplate so that they do not go through so much pain again I cause them.
Several years ago my mother left for heaven, but eventually I take a photo of my mother to my daughter so that she always has it in mind and I tell her in the way that I can that she is her grandmother, but I just started looking for photos in the Photo albums of my mom, there are many lol those old books full of dust and many memories of mother and father, sometimes she used to tell me some of her memories but most of them were not very pleasant for my mom.
They say over there that we have the best moments of our lives, it is very difficult to have them captured in a photo, possibly you are so immersed in living that good moment that you don't even have time to run for a camera, so the best memories of our lives are we keep in our minds and they will be remembered in a very subjective way.
My mother had a failed marriage was 25 years married to my father and I do not remember any good moment that she told me, although I am sure it must have existed, looking for these photos in the albums I realized that they were too few not to say I only got two complete photos of my father, the rest my mom took care of cutting my dad's head lol.
So once again, my mom left me a valuable lesson; I think that whether we have very good memories or not, they are experiences that we live, both good and bad are part of who we are, experiences form our character, we know how it feels to fail or win, how it is to go through a mourning or a birth but the memories will always be part of us, now yes, the application that we give depends on us, I think that if my mother had not remained stagnant for many years of her life in the bad of the lived perhaps her experience It would have served him to have a fuller life.
Let us remember, friends, that life is to live it, memories are only memories, they are good but they should not direct our future, they forge our character but they do not determine us.
Old memory is most important of life . Family and Friends are Most important on life .
This is quite touching. Losing a loved one is always characterized by sad moments but we feel relieved when we remember their good works and deeds. One way of remembering them is through pictures - it brings back old memories. It makes us remember moments in time when we attended a particular event together, birthday celebration, wedding and so on.
May her soul continue to rest in PEACE. AMEN
yes friend very determined words! regards
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