Friendship & Relationship:
I know in real life a person can't see more than two years into a friendship before the color of that friendship changes completely. But I wish I could have seen the enormous hole I've seen in that friendship, and not ignored it as a non-issue. How do you know when to stop thinking about the past and begin focusing on the present?
I expected to be devastated. To be honest I wasn't, because I understood his position. I understand the frustration that comes with being part of an unhappy couple, not all the problems that come with, but for many of us we're good, it's not exactly the best thing, there are only a few who are destined to be, our happy homes may be full, but we're unhappy still.
What happened next has deeply traumatized me. He did not drop the friendship, which I thought was mutually-beneficial. He brought me back to the friendship. He listened to me as we discussed the answer I was looking for and he had the courage to tell me the truth.
It's been a long road and there is still a lot of pain and anger from me after the last few years.But I'll go for it one more time. If you want to be in a relationship with someone, then ask. If you want to sleep with someone, then ask. If you want a long-term girlfriend then ask. But for god sake, keep in mind that you can't sleep with the person you have a good relation or friendship. But the truth is when you like some one deeply that will hurt you too much as well.
The truth is something we always want to hear some people do not want to listen the truth which hurts you but i am such kind of person that i prefer someone to tell me the truth even how much its hard for me to hear and how much it hurts me, because when there is a time come and truth came to you in a different way it will hurt you more than you ever expect.
It's been a long road and there is still a lot of pain and anger from me after the last few years. But I'll go for it one more time. If you want to be in a relationship with someone, then ask. If you want to sleep with someone, then ask. If you want a long-term girlfriend then ask. But for god sake, keep in mind that you can't sleep with the person you have a good relation or friendship. But the truth is when you like some one deeply that will hurt you too much as well.
Truth Of Life:
I also know that people are believing that when you love someone it sometimes hurts but that is not the complete truth the truth is that loneliness hurts you and people think that its love which is hurting you love is a good feeling which fells your heart ,We need to find a relation which we trust like our Parents.
No relation is Pure to be honest, People will not look at your honestly they only want you to have a class , they look at your status. Just noticed when you know someone who is really poor you will find no one is a good friend to him , every one will just use him the time they need him and there will be no permanent friend of him.
Noticed When you are in relation And you ignore what happened in the past and keep going and looking forward to enjoy the present and take care of each other then its something which really means, A true lover will always let you grow to achieve what you want to be in the life he will not drag you down but they will always encourage you to grow and you have to give the same response by encouraging him too.
Those who only remember your past and what happened in the past is stick to there mind they have no right to be with you in the present time you have to kick them out of your life .
Post Published By @muhammadadil .