I need to want more

in GEMS4 years ago

Necessity succeeds but it is the mother of discovery. Which means it's about to be the most delusional time of the year, as well. This is what drives our evolution. We feel our feelings about things, including the natural environment beyond the control of both species and the environment that affects us.

We all need something.

Shouldn’t we have an immediate answer to this or do our attention sink into action when asked and do we scan our immediate needs? This process, however, does not mean that our immediate needs merge with our future needs and when faced with current sensitive tensions. Meeting our needs can further satisfy our aspirations at our own expense in the future. An awkward sentence. I think we all decided at the moment that we would have chosen something different later.

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If we need to keep an eye on Maslow's taxonomy. We can get an initial idea of ​​the kind of things we might need in a lifetime, even though how many actually fill this pyramid?

Lack of prejudice, acceptance of truth, creativity, ethics ....

Apparently, we focus somewhat on the others and perhaps somehow bind them in the base physiological region. I was thinking a little bit about the drama in the United States surrounding democracy in general as well as the vote. We seem to believe in ourselves to make good decisions. Yet in places like America where percent0 percent of people are overweight and more than 40% are obese. Can we believe in ourselves? After all, each of us is deciding a vote on what food we will take. If we can’t make good base physiological decisions. How can we still be so confident in more complex decisions?

Lately in my writing I have been focusing on one level that is profit and belonging. It’s a huge part of being human and the very core part is bound to our wiring. Yet, we have largely removed intimacy from our lives and are living more cellular lives. We have made communication between family and friends much weaker. We need less of them which is a good thing in some respects but it also takes toll in others. Instead of using the space created to improve our relationships, we keep ourselves away from the key to our core relationships.

I think at the moment, there is a lot of focus on the Esteem Layer. I think people have changed it and replaced it with identity. Rather to feel comfortable in our own skin. We have created a culture where we claim to accept others as we are and if we do not, we can blame them for our mistakes. It’s not confidence, it’s insecurity. We have taken to social media and protested on the streets because we are insecure in who we are. A truly confident person doesn't care what you call it. They do not recognize the labels you recognized.

It is affected by the second level It is also under attack, where our own protection comes under fire every day. If we consider the attack on our faith as an attack on us as human beings. The Internet is full of people who don't like us and the way the Internet encourages us. Because those who are against us are more likely to speak for us. Not only that, the level also begins to create us and our skills and beliefs as more irrelevant meanings that have begun to disconnect us make it intimidate our core. So we rebel in an attempt to regain our self-esteem by trying to force others to respect us.

Needs are a complex field that we actually need to survive in life which is very simple. But the society we have created makes it very difficult to survive the discovery and fulfillment of all the above needs. It has been strengthened because it is not just a struggle for a person to move forward on the journey. Other people are actively working against us at every step, while they take their own journey of self-importance.

Perhaps though, it is because the values ​​of society are effective because we do not continue to fight just to meet our needs. But discuss the needs of others who are trying to meet their own goals. In a world of all kinds of crises. It tends to be more prone to negative conflicts and violence than positive compromises and innovations.

What do I need?

There are many things that come to mind that will somehow satisfy my current situation. But it does not matter how much of them. I was able to meet as soon as possible. Another need will arise and I will be forced to move again. In some ways it is like the process of osmosis, where we need to absorb the concentration and we apply force to it until the next need draws our attention to it until it is equal to our new normal.

The problem with human needs is that they are endless, as we do not just have to meet the physical needs of animals. We also need to find a way to satisfy our emotions and emotions. Which leads to spirituality. This is probably why many people turn to a religion. Because it gives them work or rules together to be “satisfied”, even if they are meaningless in all other respects. Faith becomes truth regardless of truth.

Needs are interesting things like when we know that something is very necessary for survival we discipline this term and apply it in such a way that it creates self-barriers to our future.

"I'd like a cigarette."
No i don't

We are often confused about what we need.

Or is it desire?