Responsiveness its when you don’t love yourself?

Hi all! Since childhood, I have always been sympathetic, and tried to help relatives and friends, if they had difficulties.

Some people called me stupid - just because I think about other people. My friends think I don't love myself enough. Even on my birthday, a friend called me and wished to love herself more😳🫣🫣🫣🫡

Most of my friends live only for themselves, and I do not consider this to be something freaky .. This is their own business. But some little thing (how to help an unfamiliar grandmother carry her heavy bags of food or move her across the road) is a common thing for me.🫠🫠🫠😊

In my life I have situations, and more than once, when I helped people a lot and did not receive any gratitude. People took it as if it was necessary. But it doesn't matter to me. It is important that their difficult situation is over. I'm not helping to get ducked at the feet or kissed on the knees ..😁

Especially after the war began - I became more down to earth. I mean, I don't need much to be happy. Supporting people is normal for me. And that doesn't mean that I don't love myself. Or is there something wrong with me?🫣🫠❤️‍🩹
Thank you 🙏 Have a good day 💗