Love sometimes turns into disappointment and that's the truth.But I have understood one thing and that is that parents never wish their children bad.One should never marry for love.It is best to marry with the consent of parents.If you disobey your parents you will face many obstacles to succeed in life and I believe that.
In order to be successful in life of course parents' love and prayers are needed.It is real and proven that parents never wish their children bad.But because of disobedient children parents are sometimes dishonored.Emotional children do many wrong things and realize it later.
I think love marriage without family consent is totally illegal.You should not do anything against the consent of the parents who brought you up.When I was in high school a boy wanted to love me and proposed to me.At first I avoided it and I felt bored.Because then I did not have much experience about love.
But it is a fact that even fools become clever if they are in the outside world.The boy used to stand on the street every day and try to talk me and I noticed that.For about six months the boy kept chasing me for love and at one point I talked to this boy and we started making love.Sometimes I used to go out on the boy's bike.
We would try to meet regularly and talk on the phone when we were at home.This is how our relationship continued and at one point the boy wanted to marry me.But I don't want to do anything without the consent of my family so ask him to take my marriage proposal to my house.Then one day he approached my father and proposed marriage.
Then my father tried to know good and bad about the boy and went to the boy's village to inquire.And it happens in our country that one should inquire about the son before marriage because one has to know whether the son is good or bad.At that time I was disappointment a lot because I was worried about what my father would tell me.But my father got a bad record of the boy.
Among the bad records, the boy was sometimes addicted to drugs which my father did not like at all.Because in our religion drinking alcohol is completely haram and it is illegal.My father ordered me not to have any more contact with the boy and it was very frustrating for me.On the one hand I love the boy and on the other hand the honor of the family.I spent those days in extreme disappointment.
But I respect my parents the most so I accepted their word and stopped contact with that boy.But the boy used to harass me in many ways and tried hard to get me married.The boy offered me that let's go away so no one will know but I did not agree as I am a respectable family member.I myself fell in love with the boy so I was very depressed at that time.
Then my father arranges marriage for me elsewhere and arranges marriage for me elsewhere.Although I was suffering a lot and I was going through extreme depression but I could not disobey my parents.I got married with the consent of my family and currently I am happy with my husband and children.But even after marriage the boy wanted to meet me and I was very disappointed at that time.
Even after my marriage, for a few months I was very fond of the boy and many thoughts were working inside me.But gradually everything got better and I forgot about the boy for now.I forgave the boy and hope he forgave me.See here I give my family the most consent.Now I want to live happily with my husband and children and forget the past.This love is happiness for some and disappointment for others.This love was a disappointment for me.
Anyway by coming to this community I got a chance to share my sad story and from here I learned to save the environment so thanks a lot to them.The pictures below show the moment of cleaning up garbage from a tree garden on the afternoon of January 20th.
I thanks to @cleanplanet for creating this great initiative because today I am motivated to save the environment and nature.Thank you so much for visiting my Clean Planet blog.Have a wonderful day.
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You are right with marriage but in my opinion I believe we should marry because of love and also with the consent of our parents is very important, I can't imagine marrying someone I didn't love.
PEACE BE UNTO YOU!!
love is a two edged sword , it can heal and can also cause great pain . Marrying for love and consent of the parents is also a very good idea, but i also believe that we should also marry who we choose to marry , let us not be blinded to the extent that we are forced to marry someone that we don't want to marry all in the name of making our parents happy. Remember , we are the ones that will live with our partner and not our parents.