Today I will share with you one of my real life scary incident which happened to me in 2023 to 2024.Yes the year 2023 to 2024 tells the story of my life's disappointment.
I got the chance to share that real life experience and terrible experience with you today so I shared it.Due to that incident I suffered extreme depression and even contemplated suicide.I don't know if the great God has forgiven me.I seek forgiveness from the great God for that incident and I also forgive the person with whom this terrible incident happened to me.Let's move on to the main story.
In the age of social media especially Facebook many people have relationships and friendships.Sometimes friendships lead to deeper relationships.Nowadays, because of Facebook the incident of divorce and extramarital love have increased significantly.Due to social media many people's lives are in chaos today and many young men and women are suffering from this disease.I have seen that many girls have left their husbands and children for the love of Facebook.We easily get addicted to this disease and later we face great danger.I am a victim myself😭😭😭.
I am a single guy and I have been running Facebook since almost 10 years.I completed diploma from Sylhet Moulvibazar Polytechnic.While studying at the Polytechnic Institute I met a girl on Facebook and became good friends with her.That girl made me her facebook friend in 2022 and time was very good and I had no tension.We used to communicate regularly on Facebook and at one point we started talking on phone calls.Over the phone call we developed a deeper connection and eventually we met.
After meeting I came to know that the girl was from our neighboring village and she already knew me but I didn't know him.Anyway, I got into a relationship with him from friendship to love.My love affair with him continued.We keep in touch on Facebook and talk on phone calls.Besides we meet sometimes.This is how our chemistry continues.I had a good relationship with him even in early 2023 and I was a person free of disappointment.
Suddenly one day a man came to me and ordered me not to have any more contact with the girl and that man was the girl's husband.Hearing this the sky fell in my head and I realized that the girl had cheated on me by cheating on her husband.I found out about a year later the girl was married and she cheated on me.Her husband told me everything and I apologized to her husband.Since then I stopped contact with that girl but she kept harassing me in various ways.
I told the girl a lot that you have a husband so be happy with your husband and leave me behind.But the girl was not leaving me at all and was just annoying me.I was working in a company in the year 2023 and even after going to that company the girl started trouble in various ways.Times were very bad for me and I was depressed.I stop all contact with the girl and I change my home and I change my office means I join new job so that the girl doesn't find me.But the saddest thing is that in 2023 the girl filed a court case in my name and it was a completely false case.And for that false case I was subjected to extreme harassment.Although it is a false case but it takes a long time to prove it in the court and it cost me a lot of money in the meantime.He filed a false rape case in my name and demanded money.Even after filing the case he threatened and harassed me a lot.My family was very ashamed and depressed because of that.I had very bad times and suffered from extreme disappointed.At one time I was subjected to a lot of harassment to avoid the case.
Because neither I nor my family like any adulteration and we are afraid of lawsuits.The case continued for 2023 from 2024 and my harassment continued to increase.She threatened me that if I gave her ten thousand dollars she would withdrawal the case.10 thousand dollars is too much for me so I refuse because I can't pay that much.I was stuck with him for one reason because I had some offensive photos with him.Day by day my depression increased and at one point I even decided to commit suicide.I am a single boy so I realized my mistake and I just wanted to live from that disappointment.
I wanted to escape from that depression and anxiety at any cost and my father understood and reassured me.The whole year 2024 was spent in my depression and just being harassed.Finally in November the arbitrator of the two villages held an arbitration and there decided to settle the dispute but for a sum of money.6 thousand dollars to be paid to the girl as a result of the arbitration decision, she will withdraw the case.And my family agreed.
Then at the end of November the girl withdrew my case and we paid her.After removing the case I was freed from anxiety and depression and took a deep breath under the open sky.Hopefully 2025 will be good for me and I have learned a big lesson from the past not to make such mistakes in future because illicit love destroys everything and ends a life in disappointed.But I will not forgive that girl because she is a cheater.That girl cheated on her husband and also cheated on me.I think such cheating girls should be punished.They are the poison of society.
And thus I was drowned in two years of depression and in 2025 I managed to come out of disappointed and want to spend the days ahead well you all pray for me.The pictures below show some scene of clearing garbage from a garden on January 20th.I am glad to join this community.
Thank you...
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I really liked your way of working on Clean Planet. Whatever work you are doing, I am also doing similar work. I'm glad I came across your post and saw your work.
Keep posting like this.
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PEACE BE UNTO YOU !!
A very great thing it is to hear that you finally escaped the hurdle , difficulty and depression. I have great men fall as result of love or maybe in situations where they are being filed againts for a rape case.
Stay strong.