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Disappointment is becoming a part of our daily life which we as individual was experience in One form or the other. In a contemporary world, it is becoming a norm for people to betray the trust others have in them, sometimes some people do it consciously and others do it on consciously. When a person is disappointed, speaking from experience it brings about a reaction of mixed feelings, Sadness frustration and distrust. My point exactly is that, when you are in a committed relationship with a person could be friends, family or romantic, somehow you expect them to have your back in times of trouble or when in difficult situation but somehow these persons let you down and do not show up when you need them the most, these can bring up about disappointment and make you want to distance yourself from such people.
Disappointments is basically an emotional feeling that brings about dissatisfaction in oneself, Sadness or frustration and all these can occur in different forms like broken promises, expectations not met, betrayal, distrust and so on. There are various instances that the feeling of disappointment can occur and one thing to Note is that as human beings we need to be careful when dealing with people because sometimes our actions can bring about the downfall of another person. While some people are strong-Hearted others are soft-hearted and they cannot handle this feelings of disappointments. Some instances include not showing up an important event, forgetting important dates or anniversaries, not getting a job, failing to meet target, not keeping to promises and so on.
One time I had a very close friend we often do things together and somehow she failed to show up for an important event that was happening in my life at that time. Not that she was indispose or anything but the reasons she gave was just weird and then I noticed something was wrong. I remember how I would show up for this lady, even one time she was very sick I stayed with her in the hospital, slept on the bench outside because visitors were not allowed to sleep in the word but still life happens. I really just couldn't imagine how she would forget something so important, and I had a circle of very few friends. Although, it hurt me but it also gave me the opportunity to reaccess myself and give in to the fact that not everyone can show up for you when you need them.
Sometimes, this disappointments happens not for you to get angry or do something trash but for you to reevaluate yourself. Give your energy and trust to people that really deserves it. This new year there were many people who claimed the resolution that trended on social media that states "dey who dey for you" meaning to "have time for who had yours".
This is a part of my entry for the #Januaryinleo prompt as organized by the @leogrowth team with great initiative that members of Hive you can participate in this prompt and tackle them as you deem fit. In conjunction with @cleanplanet community.
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Disappointment hits differently when it comes from our loved ones and I know how it feels.
Unfortunately, disappointment has become part of our daily lives and it's important that we keep our heads high in the face of disappointment.
Truly, depression is like a disease for us, many people are its victims.