the truth is that restitution is not really easy. especially if the hurt or pain caused earlier created a big scar that one can never forget. And believe me sincerely it is not really easy to come out to plead for restitution. Anyone who can take a bold step to do this ha really tried a lot to subdue their ego.
nevertheless once the did has been done, i don't think it is really easy to redeemed what has been done. so for me i will rather let go. and end everything there.