What an insightful post, thanks for sharing.
I do have a friend that always feels he could please everyone, most times in the act of trying to please someone, he gets to hurt himself. Sometimes he forgets that he has an assignment while helping others sort theirs out. And when things don’t turn up the way he feels, he over thinks, I mean he seriously over thinks.
To make things worse, people who knows his weakness uses it against him, they always call for his help, they never turn up when he needs help, they also take him for granted because he is always available.
I wouldn’t recommend this post, because I always tell him that some things are meant to be left alone in other go focus on the important ones, you cannot participate in everything and focus on everything at the same time, only God can do that.