I am rarely using my personal facebook account since joining Hive. I lost interests on posting on Facebook since 2019 as I realised there was no real reactions on my posts any more. Lots of judgement in a simple post. One day while reading through my feed, I started judging other posts and what they do as well. That was when I know I am not gonna use it any more. Together with the mess FB sell our data and behavior for others to use and manipulate us, I am also sick of it. Thats why when I heard about Hive, I got hooked.
Another thing I dislike about FB is its promoting fake news as it will drive users engagement. What a unethical (to users) and cruel (to victims) way to do that.
Anyway I see we share the same pattern at this time of our lives. When I turn 30, I like to spend time alone and think about stuff going on around me. When I feel something bother me, I like to be just with me to check on my feelings. Unlike before, I ignored it and get outside to find something fun. Now I believe In my inner self and the real happiness comes from inside.
Thank you for sharing your life with us and thank you for trusting us enough to do so. All the best. Cheers, Dora
Hello Dora! Your comment was a wonderful read for me, thank you!
It is interesting what you have said about judging. Now that I think about it, I recall doing the same sometimes. It is easy to get corrupted if you sit in one place too long , including online.
It is beautiful that you realized that happiness comes from the inside. I have been in that place when I searched an escape from going within: I was an workaholic, trying to fill the time so it would numb my soul and make me forget about my sadness. It took some life lessons to bring me back in a centered spiritual place. I am so grateful for my journey and I make constant efforts to remain conscious and in tune with my emotions.
I trust Hive with details from my personal life, it is the only place where it feels safe and real
Hugs from Romania🤗
Now you mentioned it I was a workaholic too. I love my job and I want to prove my ability to do the work better than others. So I sometimes spent my days off to do my job. However, too much of screen times made my body and mind tiring and ache. Not balancing my life was a mistake as I miss many great things. Since then, I learn to take care of my mental health and wellbeing.
I believe you are an excellent student, thats why life gives you a harder lesson to learn. Congratulations on the new journey of life and for all the brave thing you did to yourself. I am so glad to 'meet' you here. Have a lovely Sunday. Lots of hugs from NZ.
It was that saying that God gives you only what you can handle .Now I understand these words better although when I was in the moment I had flashes of despair. Maybe only through pain conscioussness awakens
It was lovely to read your comments, hugs to you too Dora from lovely Romania🤗