I salute your grandfather with the honor and respect he deserves, although, I am sure he would tell you that he was only doing his duty and it was an honor.
I still believe that you can be/feel patriotic toward your country by creating that same feeling of sameness with like-minded people. I do not like what they are doing here in the United States, but, there are people here that feel that same sense of national pride.
While I am not explaining myself well, I do understand that yesteryear had a different mentality, but, also, different times. Having a tour in the military, in war or peace was a given that young men willing did. It was their duty that was a right of passage. Today, we must make it a law to enlist, as they would not do so otherwise,
Oh, the times have changed. Where have all the real men gone?
Hi Denise
Thanks for the message. Yes, I am sure he would be so humble and say he was doing his duty. I don't doubt it for a second actually.
I agree and I think this is what my sister and I did when we were chatting about our mother and her forefathers, although when my Grandfather and Great Grandfather were alive, South Africa was also still part of the Common Wealth which I think also came with a slightly different meaning, feeling and bestowed sense of duty. I'm not one for kings and queens but I'm not entirely sure if this country is in a better position since we gained our independence and sovereignty - I could possibly be lynched for saying that but if I look at the state of our army now, unfortunately it is vastly different to back then and not in a good way. I could go on and on, but I know you and I are on the same page so I won't.
I'll continue to be grateful to my forefathers until my last days.
Anyway, have a good day and I hope you do something lovely this weekend. Go spoil yourself with some flowers :)
Cheers
Andy
Grateful is the only thing we can be. I agree. Have a wonderful Sunday!