I can seriously relate to your experience with your dad and that is because there are lots of advice that my mum gave me as a child that I am still using now, and I am grateful I received them
I am happy to know that you are here in the POB community and you find the wide range of opportunities, brutal in a way because it is so inviting you could not hesitate to start interacting as well
This is what we stand for, a part of it though, lol. We make people who come around feel comfortable in their own skin. They have the freedom to express themselves in any way or any language that they want. And we reward them with support, comments, and upvotes
so welcome to the community and feel free around here. Cheers