Definitely I strongly agreed with you on this and let me to have even notice this is the best of all,cause it means you won't have to be tell what to do again before you know what to do and to me it is one of the best way to check mate ourselves too in life.
there is nothing to do other than to repent and stop being deceptive. because the more you go the more you wasn't the case and the more you become a bad person.
there is nothing to do other than to repent and stop being deceptive. because the more you go the more you wasn't the case and the more you become a bad person.
Definitely ni.so much agreed with you on this and I will say it will be o f no help or favor to be very deceptive just as you have said mate,cause to me things like this do make wow to loose trust and confidence in us,so I strongly agreed with you nthst it will be much more better that we give up such act and be very honest with ourself and people around us, cause I always have this believe that we tend to loose more when we started looking so deceptive,we tend loose more integrity and admiration from every individual around us.
So I strongly believe that I will be of more help when we learn how to come out plain irrespective of how bad it might sound or look at times,thier is always a reward for be honest and truthful no matter how little or small it might be
It depends what it is. If it's just "white lies" - telling someone they look nice to save their feelings, there is no harm done. If it's more serious than that and gets criminal, then you need to stop.
Don't lie to deceive someone because one day the truth will be revealed.
It's better to reveal the truth now and find a solution done patching it with a lie till it become deep and brutal
If you keep telling someone they look nice just to save their feelings, one day someone else will be blunt and tell them they don't. Then they'll be even more hurt that you who they considered as a friend couldn't be straight with them.
My first reaction is to say you need to learn to lie better, but there is no such thing. You will be found out and what is whispered in rooms will be shouted out.
My hearts says you can start a clean slate when you realize the truth is a much more interesting story then any lie you can make. I kind of envy those who get paid for telling the truth.
My first reaction is to say you need to learn to lie better,
I thought of this too, and when I tried it the first time, I couldn't imagine I did that. I didn't have to say a word, all I did was act, and the other party thought it was real.
You will be found out and what is whispered in rooms will be shouted out.
Of course, I can't put up the mask for a long time. Feelings will be hurt. I am grateful I didn't say a word, I just need to counter whatever happens in the future with what the other party said from the start
My hearts says you can start a clean slate when you realize the truth is a much more interesting story then any lie you can make
My sincerity will hurt him, and I am scared. I don't want to lose him as a friend. Can't I let it roll and stop on its own?
I kind of envy those who get paid for telling the truth.
Really? Who are the people who get paid for telling the truth?
To me what I learn so far on the word deception is that you that is deceptive will one day decived yourself and go wrong in life and definitely it will affect your lifelyhood .
Only way to stop being negative is to increase positive things around.
Now, this is different, if I increase positivity, the aura of negativity will decrease..... I will try and spread love all around me then, Instead of thinking up deceptive thoughts... Thanks honey 😊
There is no easy way to "Stop being deceptive".
But then with your advice above, I can take it one step at a time.... It will bring me closer to becoming a better person
I quite agree with you , because been positive person it give you more edge and wisdom to live among the positive people Also there will be llw reward of been positive ,
It's quite easy, just stop being a deceptive person. The good thing is you have noticed, that's the first step. The second step is to make conscious effort to not keep being that person.
If you're enjoying the change that mean there's no much you intend to do to change it. Some goods things may come out of being deceptive, you may end up getting some favours out of it but the thing is the truth will always catch up with you, that'll make you look like a fool.
Some goods things may come out of being deceptive, you may end up getting some favours out of it but the thing is the truth will always catch up with you, that'll make you look like a fool
The good will always overtake the bad ... With these few points of yours, you have been able to convince me that deception is a no, no for me.... Hehehehe n
Ìf i found that out,then the best thing for me to do is stop doing what made me become a deceptive person..
I'll try my best but the happiness he felt was out of this world. He was beaming from ear to ear ..... I wish what I did to make him smile like that was real but at that point, it was all an act
I'll find ways to make them real if need be... Thanks to the community for all your advice ☺️
Stop being deceptive....
Noticing it is the first step to adjusting ones behaviour.
Yeah I totally agree with your answer , simply stop been deceptive.
I will try since everyone have said so 😴😤😩😟
What if I am enjoying the feeling? 🥺
Definitely I strongly agreed with you on this and let me to have even notice this is the best of all,cause it means you won't have to be tell what to do again before you know what to do and to me it is one of the best way to check mate ourselves too in life.
this.. work on that stuff!
there is nothing to do other than to repent and stop being deceptive. because the more you go the more you wasn't the case and the more you become a bad person.
Definitely ni.so much agreed with you on this and I will say it will be o f no help or favor to be very deceptive just as you have said mate,cause to me things like this do make wow to loose trust and confidence in us,so I strongly agreed with you nthst it will be much more better that we give up such act and be very honest with ourself and people around us, cause I always have this believe that we tend to loose more when we started looking so deceptive,we tend loose more integrity and admiration from every individual around us.
So I strongly believe that I will be of more help when we learn how to come out plain irrespective of how bad it might sound or look at times,thier is always a reward for be honest and truthful no matter how little or small it might be
I will try, mate, thanks
I wouldn't want this to happen anyways.... 🤒
i meant worsen* but thank God understood, make sure you take a step and God will support you because he loves a heart of repentance
Hehehehe.... Yes, I understood
I'll do just that, thanks 😊
God loves the heart of repentance and most especially a humble heart and not a pride heart
That's true
U can't use unrighteousness to defend righteousness.so just repent and start afresh
Everyone practices a little deception.
It depends what it is. If it's just "white lies" - telling someone they look nice to save their feelings, there is no harm done. If it's more serious than that and gets criminal, then you need to stop.
Yeah lying to save someone from sadness is a good lie in my opinion..
Don't lie to deceive someone because one day the truth will be revealed.
It's better to reveal the truth now and find a solution done patching it with a lie till it become deep and brutal
If you keep telling someone they look nice just to save their feelings, one day someone else will be blunt and tell them they don't. Then they'll be even more hurt that you who they considered as a friend couldn't be straight with them.
Oops...... I'll definitely stop before it gets to this point
My first reaction is to say you need to learn to lie better, but there is no such thing. You will be found out and what is whispered in rooms will be shouted out.
My hearts says you can start a clean slate when you realize the truth is a much more interesting story then any lie you can make. I kind of envy those who get paid for telling the truth.
I thought of this too, and when I tried it the first time, I couldn't imagine I did that. I didn't have to say a word, all I did was act, and the other party thought it was real.
Of course, I can't put up the mask for a long time. Feelings will be hurt. I am grateful I didn't say a word, I just need to counter whatever happens in the future with what the other party said from the start
My sincerity will hurt him, and I am scared. I don't want to lose him as a friend. Can't I let it roll and stop on its own?
Really? Who are the people who get paid for telling the truth?
To me what I learn so far on the word deception is that you that is deceptive will one day decived yourself and go wrong in life and definitely it will affect your lifelyhood .
Chai..... I can't risk this, I have to reconsider my acts. Thank Goodness it's not too late
Only way to stop being negative is to increase positive things around.
There is no easy way to "Stop being deceptive".
Now, this is different, if I increase positivity, the aura of negativity will decrease..... I will try and spread love all around me then, Instead of thinking up deceptive thoughts... Thanks honey 😊
But then with your advice above, I can take it one step at a time.... It will bring me closer to becoming a better person
I quite agree with you , because been positive person it give you more edge and wisdom to live among the positive people Also there will be llw reward of been positive ,
It's quite easy, just stop being a deceptive person. The good thing is you have noticed, that's the first step. The second step is to make conscious effort to not keep being that person.
@rentmoney, said this too, but what if I am enjoying the change?
Is something if I don't want to stop?
Can't there be a positive side to being deceptive?
If you're enjoying the change that mean there's no much you intend to do to change it. Some goods things may come out of being deceptive, you may end up getting some favours out of it but the thing is the truth will always catch up with you, that'll make you look like a fool.
The good will always overtake the bad ... With these few points of yours, you have been able to convince me that deception is a no, no for me.... Hehehehe n
I would go and ensure that i visit a psychologist..
I guess that is the best decision to take
Oh no!!!! I think I should visit one soon... Thanks for the advice
Ìf i found that out,then the best thing for me to do is stop doing what made me become a deceptive person..
I'll try my best but the happiness he felt was out of this world. He was beaming from ear to ear ..... I wish what I did to make him smile like that was real but at that point, it was all an act
I'll find ways to make them real if need be... Thanks to the community for all your advice ☺️