A somehow cold morning we having here😁
Would like to state a very simple point here
Comparison....
Yeah comparison... In moving, working, helping in everything we do, we should learn to accept how we are, tho we we should strive to keep on improving and not settling for less.... But we should let go of comparison
"when you look away and don't mind, it actually won't matters)
Down here our parents are so fond of things like that 😏, "look at your mate buying car for his parents.... Check out Nelson's dad is he not living in his own house..." you see David, you both are same age, he's no more in the country see where you are..... That's tends to make youths and others misbehave and go into stuffs that ain't right,it got them(us) thinking,not sleeping.... Depressed😔.
they felt left out, they don't know what to do, they strive the wrong way to make things look palatable for them also
...when it's your time to shine and show forth... You will surely💪
Few tips/Ways that could be of help to compare/compete with yourself instead of competing/comparing with others, set goals ahead, a year, two or more and see what you could make out of it/achieve/how far you could go...
The more we focus on others the more we feel worse about how far we've gone...
Have contentment... We should endeavor to be satisfied with whatever we have, satisfaction/contentment is a great thing to possess....
Note:it doesn't mean you don't have goals ahead, and does not mean you should be stagnant or not making progress... It's just being satisfied/contented and appreciative of whatever you get at the end of the day/month/year/fixed period, and be happy and joyful with it.
Do not bad envy other people, celebrate with them, a family or neighbors got a new house, you are agemate doesn't mean, celebrate with them, appreciate and celebrate other people's achievements(Romans 12 VS 15)..... Don't worry.. Yours is next...
Thanks for taking your time to go through this post, one love you all....
Would be expecting your feedback in the comment section.
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