I've never helped with an intention. But being valued is a thing. You can't have someone who only remembers you when there's trouble.
It wouldn't been perfect, if I were an infinite being. But I'm not.
As a result my time needs to judiciously spent.
I shouldn't waste my life with a perpetual ingrate.
No truer words my dear.
We shouldn't spend valuable time with people that don't even value our time