Do you know how many times he refused to take my advice and sort this situation of his out peacefully? Every time. Do you know how many times I've been thrown under the bus for trying? Every time.
I already know in advance, some people in some social circles here think I'm a monster. I joke about it everyday with my avatar. I straight up rub it in your faces with a big red letter 'M'. I know that if people see you talking to so and so, and they don't like so and so, you're guilty by association. Do you realize people see me talking to you or lucy or anyone, and the same thing could happen. Guilty by association. The solution was to simply stop giving a fuck what people think of me. No time for gossip. Haven't looked back since.
This place has a small town mentality. It drives me bonkers.
But I seriously don't have time for this now. That was wasted. I said I've been ignoring POB. This is why. I'm not taking sides and I hate walls/echo-chambers. It's the opposite of a welcoming environment. All I've seen are platform politics coming out of there. The rest of the content I can find elsewhere.