Let me take you all through what I felt this morning when and I woke up and seeing @insight.pob question too makes me feel like let me share it
Smile that is what I did when I looked at her eye this morning and I was like come here let me talk about you,she smiled and was like what have I done wrong again this time,,I couldn't say anything for some minutes,was just speechless and was just staring at her,it is true that we all have reasons for dating a partner as some may say,but at times base on my understanding and feeling most times,I do think it is not really a must,you might not be seeing things just the way am seeing it,but trust me, that is what life is built on,, our ability to see things from other channel.
I have never for once be a relationship expert ,but I strongly believe that having a good and healthy relationship means alot in life,mind you I might be talking mainly on love relationship here,but my focus also is not shifted away from what will also looked out for when it comes to friendship and any type of ship we might find ourself in life.
Have you ever asked yourself does she really needs to be pretty or what do you always look out for in her
Does she really needs to be heavily endowed,is that all you really need.
have to think that at times,we don't really understand or know what to look out for ,we are just Carried away with the physical appearance in most cases and let me say that is why most relationship to ends up like account with short terms contact
Know your priority when it comes to chosen a partner and don't mind me that all I talked about was the feminine part ,the smile on my face when I woke up to see that pretty face of my wife inspired this write up.
Does she really have to be pretty
but at the first place when you meet your partner, you cant just say you just love her, but maybe while talking to her or her attitude or facial attraction or body shape , but later you might not see that again but just love.
but something must have attracted you to her
Definitely to me you have spoken well mate and I must say that is part of life too,the level of usefulness you are getting from such partner too should be well looked into and I must still also.lwt you know that I strongly have this mindset that beauty or how she looks should not be all will go for in relationship as I strongly believe that all this thing will fade with time and they will be left with their attitude and character with us
The concept on love and relationship should be far beyond what we see and that plays absolutely no part in the longevity of the relationship. Many have entered for the wrong reasons such as facial beauty and all with majority ending in a disastrous fashion. What should matter in any relationship is compatibility, loyalty, understand and trust. If all these are found, the relationship will stand the test of time.
At the end of the day it is all about priority and knowing what you want in the relationship. Facial beauty and physical features may attract but it will never sustain. For me shouldn't have to be a beauty queen or some angel has all that fades. Would rather prefer a great attitude and level of understanding above pretty face and natural endowment.