If you follow your heart, you might be misled, so use your head that's what some people say (vice-versa)
How often do you use your head when your heart is not taking part, can you use your head to fall in love?..
Some tell you it's better to use your head in taking life decisions,than using your heart.. Do I even know when my head is taking a decision? 🤦🤦
After passing through many heartbreaks and rejection, I always ask myself why is it so.. What am I doing that's really bad, why can't I just date any lady for at least a month without having issues which leads to the end...
I decided to talk to my friends for advice and solutions, firstly I was called "LOVER BOY",and then they made a statement "ONLY A FOOL LOVES WITH HIS HEART".. I was told that I do get hurt seriously and feel bad when a lady misbehaves because I give them my heart and I let them know I love them too much, with that they can always misbehave and come back begging, knowing I will accept them back because I can't do without them...how true is this?
They said they love with their head, so whenever their girlfriend acts funny, they don't feel too bad or get angry, and when they are tired of her they let her go...
🤔 Is it that easy? To just let a girl you said you love go, just like that, this was my question...
I was being laughed at again, they said you have to develop a strong heart and mind if you want to work things out with ladies, these were their last words...
Since then I have been trying to develop strong heart and mind,
I don't know how to and I'm trying to love with my head, 🤦🤦 is it even possible?
I'm still confused, is it the heart that loves or the head?...
Listening to the head, does it guarantee more success in relationships / life...?
He has spoken.
Be careful the people you get advice from. Like your friend said, I've heard a lot of people say you should love with your head.
Well I think it should be with the two. Love with your heart and make certain decisions with your head.
I don't even know when the head is working, I sha know that when I love someone, I just do things if it makes her happy...
Doing things to make her happy is part of the duty. Yall are together for companionship, happiness, growth amongst others.
I think what you should learn how to do is;
Learn to be with a girl that feels and love you the same way you do.
Make sure you can trust someone with your heart before giving them your heart.
And always remember that just because you love someone dose not mean they are going to love you back.
So learn when to give your heart and when to let go.
I wish you all the best in finding love.
Thanks so much, Its just not easy....