Wow what a story. You told it so well. He sounds like he has some shit to work through in this life time and isn't doing a very good job of it!!!
I find it interesting how we all start off the same and some of us don't handle life very well at all. They keep making same choices and can't let go of things. I do hope he finds a way out but sounds like he won't unless something radical happens.
My cousin who I grew up with is a bit like that. I haven't spoken to him in years and don't plan to after he did some terrible things. I don't like him as a person and would rather keep distance. But I always wonder what made him like that.
Much love and happy new year
Thanks so much for your appreciation and understanding.
I do hope and pray that my old friend would find the inner strength to live life in the present moment and be freed from his bad memories.
All the best for the New Year!