There's no getting around it: Breakups are terrible, even if they're handled with compassion. They can shake you to your very foundations, causing you to question your confidence AND your faith in love itself. If you've been broken up with, you're grappling with the very real pain of rejection on top of mourning a lost love. When you're the one who chose to end things, there's often guilt swirled into your sadness. Even in the most amicable, mutual situations, a split is an ending—and in a culture that emphasizes "forever" as a relationship goal, we're made to feel like an ending is a failure.In reality, breakups are often the shattering preamble to a new-and-improved life (one that can eventually include a relationship with someone you're more compatible with). But in those first few brutal days and weeks, you've got every right to feel inconsolable. In time, though, you can move onward and upward.
Except if one isn't committed to a relationship, breakups can be life shattering, it's not worth experiencing.
Breaks up indeed can be really devastating. They can shake anyone to the root of your foundation no matter peaceable they happen. Growing apart from someone you were once in love with is not an easy thing no matter how tough we try to appear.
Some how breakups are however important. As without someone we never know how strong we can be. We sometimes catch feelings for the wrong person and this blinds is from seeing the realities of were the relationship is heading til it's over.
In the end every failed relationship helps to better and more prepared for the next one to come. We are not perfect being but we seem to master certain things we more experience. Every cracks reveals our scars and make very careful of repeating certain mistakes.
In my short life here on earth, I have discovered that there is no quick way of getting over a break up. Only time and more love can heal the soul from several heart breaks.