The fear of rejection is your enemy

in Proof of Brain3 years ago

Why will you tell us to dream?

The meaning of the word dream is:

"Represent in fantasy images or events while sleeping. Longing for something that we dream of greatness." Dictionary of the Royal Spanish Academy (RAE).

The meaning of the word fear is:

"It is a feeling of mistrust that prompts you to believe that something negative is going to happen, it is about anguish in the face of a danger that, and that is very important, can be real or imagined."source

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Human beings by nature are social beings. Our life was shaped around a group, tribe, or herd. It should be noted that in order to live together in a herd, we had to establish and accept all the beliefs and games that were in our environment.

Being in a herd, we have security, this being an essential element to survive in the world, and it is something we do instinctively. Therefore, we were made inseparable to accept and obey those beliefs and rules of the game.

It is important to note that if we did not make the decision to accept these rules, we ran the risk of being singled out as "rebels" and we would be expelled from our group. And in this way we exposed ourselves to the pain of not surviving.

From this moment on, accepting without question became normal for each of us. Then; If we believe things or do them outside the group's rules, it can imply expulsion and risk of dying ...

Why should we be different?
The answer is simple because basically each of us has our own individuality. This means we have OWN needs and wants.

Since we are children we want magical and great things that violate our own beliefs that we have in our social group. That is why, as we grow older, we are forbidden to dream.

The truth of all this is that if it weren't for those dreamers, half of the things we have today would not exist. Thanks to dreams, today's world is possible!

DARE TO DREAM!...


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Very very encouraging writeup pls keep it coming


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Yes, I was suffering from this problem a lot, and it left me reluctant to take any positive step. Even during my studies, I was afraid to ask for fear of embarrassment and rejection, but I began to treat myself little by little.


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