An article written for those people who take the role of victim, when reading everything, you realize that it is a prototype that politicians assume towards the people, who are also a Victim.
And forget about gender, this is an energy of patriarchy, power and control without harmony, rising from a completely egoic place.
Most of the people who have ever been in a victim role (yes, because it is a role, not our true essence) we attract this type of people, in a courtship, marriage, false friendship, even ... In the rulers, the who see us as vulnerable due to the role of victim that we exercise, take their place as toxic characters ...
Fool with words:
This type of manipulative people are capable of having a play on words, which generates a certain satisfaction or dependence within a person who has acquired a victim role or who feels little value for himself.
He really seems like a lovely person:
Many times we let applicants for political office come to your home to bring you bags of food, scholarships, absurd promises and you fall into their charming way of being.
Just like when you meet a person and you are in a sensitive moment in your life, you allow that person to see your weakness and need to see someone who fills a space, begins to be someone charming and shows you only 1 part of what What can be.
He has great lying skills:
They are capable of lying without any type of contrary gesture, they can sustain that lie within a tense environment, they can convince you without any problem, they are very good at the art of lying.
They are egocentric:
They tend to feel that they are the best and that you will not meet anyone the same, that there will be no one who meets your needs more than him or her. They praise their "virtues" and praise themselves for every supposed knowledge they have.
They use silence to manipulate:
These types of people tend to seek their methods to make you see that you are always the wrong one, most use silence to make you feel bad and that you make the decision to make yourself feel guilty at that moment.
They ignore your feelings:
Within that weakness of feelings that the vulnerable person has, the emotional manipulator tends to show very little interest in what you need, because they are not out of love, but to manipulate and create dependency, to feel power and have control of the life of who allows it.
It questions you and your mental health:
Typical of a manipulator ... Question your decisions because it is very important to maintain control and seeing that they already have mental problems, therefore they have endured, they treat the person as if they were exaggerating, they treat them as upset but not because of their manipulation and toxic relationship , but blaming the person for being wrong and wrong in all aspects and make them see that they are the only ones who support their presence.
They do not accept their guilt:
This type of people can make mistakes, but never accept it ... On the contrary, they will make you guilty of the mistake and they will say that if they were wrong it was because of you, they do not accept anything that is not in their favor.
They look for vulnerable people:
Yes, as we have seen, they look for someone who is sensitive, lacking in affection, with problems, just out of love and in the case of politicians they look for people with the greatest poverty or towns where they can access and give them small samples of supposed affection , to win them in giant masses, that is why it is not convenient for them to end poverty, they would not have a way to continue their work of manipulation.
They have a sick need to control everything:
They must take the lead in everything, they must be aware of everything, they must feel that you give them the power for everything, they cannot lose control, because this for them is the worst, they control your life in such a way that you will do everything according to what they say. and the person in that vicious circle tends to give in without having a life of their own.
He laughs at you and judges you:
You are his mockery, his game, he can do with you what he wants, he meets with friends and laughs at your defects with them, judges your loving attitude by implying that you are easy to get tangled up. Just as the rulers do, laughing at every move they make against the people.
How do we break the cycle? Making ourselves stronger and more responsible for our actions, being independent people and working on our weaknesses. Stop continuing in that toxic life, break that spell and get out of that pattern and build your self-love.
Although the government does not change, nor will it, but we are waking up more and more to understand how they manipulate us, there should be no excuse to give power to the rulers, the media and their disinformation.
Let's turn off the televisions and educate our parents and children.
Not there manipulative, without manipulated
If you want to contribute to the healing of the world, you will have to get out of the victimizer pattern, panic does not change the course of things, self-observation and consciousness does.
No one can rescue you more than yourself.
You just describe my ex lover,my ex lover is an emotional manipulator and uses this particular method to manipulate me emotionally...
it is good that you recognize what he uses to manipulate your emotions. it is up to you to be strong and get out of this toxic circle before it is too late.