What really irritates me is when someone tries to take advantage of another person or me, for whatever reason. I can't stand it. It makes me very angry and I've even felt depressed about it on the occasions when I've experienced it. I try to be honest with everyone and try to get things for myself without having to use anyone and if this is the case I ask for help, that person knows that I don't use others underhandedly. I think there are a lot of people who only use others for their own benefit, regardless of what that other person may feel or think.
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I really understand that. Do you care to tell about the last experience where you had that?
Yes, of course. Until recently I had a boss (he is no longer with us) who was a bit of a slacker. Among his tasks was to report cases to Money Laundering. Eventually I would do it to collaborate with him when I saw that he had a lot of work. Well, three months before he left, almost every day I had to do it because he left before his lunch break and when they asked for the report he was not there. Where was he? Well, he was attending a deli sale that he was starting. As well as that report I had to do others that corresponded to him. I felt I was being used for his benefit, I let him know and he did not dare to make the decision to leave to fully attend to his business. He intended to attend to his business and have me cover for him in his tasks at the bank. I stopped helping him, his performance dropped because he neglected other things as well and obviously they dispensed with his services.
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