Life is really hard and in this matter are you men or women because both of this gender need to face lot of thing in life . But women in this case is different because of their marriage life.. From the beginning of life they need to choose out if they will do govt job first or marry first because there has deep meaning hidden.. I think now adays 90% girls study due to their society system but how many of them aim to do job in future? Less than 50%,right? Well, this number might be raised up to 95% too if they understand how much helpful job is in their life..
There has a words of security of our selves .. This is what girls should understand every time because they have less security in life of being a happy women in future but how? Well, such as a women studied till she is 23 years old and later get married with a boy .. but she do not know will she be happy there or not .. Infact she also do not know how the boy's family member will treat her after marry .. Also some girls now a days thought that love marriage is one of the best decision in their life so they do not think about her life because they think they have their dream partner who will care for them whole life .. But this is fully wrong because boy will be changed once they are married with the girl ,he loved. Girls may not believe this but this happen auto .. Boys usually are much romantic before marry but after marriage they got extra pressure which can make them behave different .. And this is the reality which girls should realized rather than depend on their bf who gonna marry them.. But this does not mean that all boys get changed after marriage but the percent also low being a good husband after marry the girls he love. The boys start to be changed for different reason as well girls may get hurt in different ways too.. Such as women usually do house work whole day such as clean house, care child, cooking and different thing but at the end of the day if husband come home while say to his wife, what are you doing whole day at home? Looks like you are doing nothing whole day except sleep and eat. Will this makes you feel good? Also there might be different reason which lead you to get hurt due to you are just house wife in house . For this reason some time there can be held a quarrel with husband and wife which lead to divorce decision . And this is nothing to boy as they can easily marry again but girls? This kinda hard for them.
After divorce, girls will be back to her father house and this kinda burden for the girls father and mother if not they are financially strong .. Also this is not the matter of their parents financially strong or not but the hurt and blame the girl will get from other people is kinda worst feeling ever .. And this is why some time girls decided to kill their own self .. But how to get rid from this kind of situation and future? This is easy if girls want to have a secure life for their future . What they need to do is focus on their study since their young age till now rather than focus on love because love is the only thing that destroy both girls and boys life..
As soon as girls start to focus on their study life then they should focus on their job life, and especially the job should be govt job due to high respect and permanent job. Once a girl got the job then her future become secure without any doubt . Infact , her husband or husband family will not be dare to say something against her due to her job. Even if her husband family become worst than she could control, then divorce will not make her to be sad as she can live her life with happiness due to her job. As like boys want their freedom and secure future , then girls should have the same aim rather than be a house wife only . Because depending on other for your living will be hard , only the house wife understand.. For better experience you should go near your house wife brother's and asked her " What will you want to do first if you are able to go on your early age time" .. I think she will surely answer like study hard and get a govt based job for secure future.
Once again, life is hard and the more you take it as hard way then the more you will get success . .
Girls get into marriage without having job or the qualification and later they lead a sad life, why be a burden to others? This is the time to change of girls life..
You share very interesting topic..To me I would say is work advisable for a lady to work before getting married.
Because of the situation of things in the country and how things are getting more worst someone really need to be working .
However some people believe that getting married with completely solve their problems while Some believe that going to school is just like a wasting of time because they never know where they will end up is good to be educated as a woman because you never know where life is taking you bro g an helping hand to your husband can help a long way and this will even bring more respect to you
wow this is very ridiculous, you make a lot of people to know the importance of study.
As a lady need to plan well for our future because guy can disappoint at any time.
For me, as lady you need to plan yourself not to end up as a house wife.
you can plan a business for yourself, due to what is happening in our country, many people that even study hard and have a good certificate, they end up as a cleaners.
To get work is not easy talk less of getting government's work, you can create a business for yourself and establish yourself so that you have an income and you will detend on guy.
As Lady you can do online business
This got me really thinking at a point while Red this content , like Where do ladies stand with their famous word of "what a man can do ,a woman can do better" ,but at the other hand I taught about it ,that most ladies just say this for bragging right all one and for them not to get intimidated.
From that I want to say it is very vital they lady should get something doing,I don't really subscribe to the government job or working for any firm of a thing and mind you am not against it on the other side.
But am of the opinion that a engagement in terms of work is vital to her and her growing up in life,even it stops her from been too dependent on a man, especially in case where some unwanted situations like the man lossing his life,I really adehere to the understanding that a lady should get things done by doing something to bring money into her purse