Some times I think of you like a brother because our parents are around the same age, and have siblings who now live their own separate lives. We are starting to ask what we should prepare for before either of them passes away, and are they willing to share their wishes with us, or write a will so we don't end up losing our home or savings. It would be interesting to try to live your life one day, and you could live mine, with a snap of the fingers.
Agree bananas are not meant for the fridge once purchased. They should be eaten within a day or so before they ripen too much or turn black. Some people think eating bananas is gross. I enjoy them best as a special treat with grain cereals, milk, and yogurts, or baked into loaf of banana bread 🍞.
Think I would try to find some dry herbs to make up for the lack of salt or pepper on the bland foods. Parsley can go with almost anything, and freshens up unsettling foods. Guessing onion and garlic is too hard for your system. Try a tiny bit of crushed fennel if you never tried it, cooked with the meat (especially pork) for an exciting variation.
I already told one of my brothers on how to access my funds, although he has no interest in cryptos I guess that he is smart enough move and figure out how to cash these funds that I've accumulated that is supposed to fund my medical goals but not enough to sustain the post operative financial needs. If only not for the war we are really doing great right now.
Also for one thing really, I do not want to bother or be a burden to anyone, even my parents, it is just we have tight-knit family values so taking care of me is part of their lives. I do think that one of my siblings will take me in if something so catastrophic happens may God forbid it. @creativetruth
Thank you for your suggestions I truly appreciate it. But the appetite loss is very strong, it also a battle to eat everyday, the only factor that I can eat well is after my dialysis session but it is unlike in the past where I can really eat like a king even after a few hours before my treatment session. .