Three kids and three jobs means quite limited time to think and do about something aside...
I perfectly understand your motivation 😂--mine is similar (Sad but True (a statement & an intelligent answer inherited from the Heavy Metal of the 90's, which we can easily call one of the philosophies of the end of the century).
BUT my only child, my boy, is already a young man. I couldn't tell if I need coffee to focus; I'm still thinking about it, but what you say makes sense to me!
You have already done the job with your kid. But I will need a lot of cups to stay focussed on the parenting jobs. 😁
Parenting is so hard if you set out to do it right, but when they're grown up, we parents prefer to remember only the happy parts 😂 Double coffee
to that!