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If you live in this society and you have to interact with the people of the society and you exchange your views with them, then it is natural that some people will like your words and some people will not like your words. You yourself must have noticed that sometimes a person says something normal to you but you do not like it at all and then later you think that this thing is absolutely wrong and if you like the words of such a person very much, then you must have some opinion about that too. Similarly, all people have different opinions about everything and we like or dislike people according to that. It often happens that if we find a person to our liking and our thoughts and his thoughts match, then it is often seen that you start liking that person, on the other hand, if you encounter a person whose words you do not like and that person always speaks contrary to your thinking, then such persons are less liked by people. If seen, then all this is a game of human mentality, in such a situation, the person does not see who is saying the right thing and who is wrong, he only sees that which person matches his thoughts and he starts liking this person who matches his thoughts.
I have seen many people who do not like their teacher or any senior person. There are many reasons for all this. Many people do not like their teacher because that teacher asks them to work hard and scolds them and makes them do many such things which the children do not like, but the same teacher is also liked by some children because those children feel that whatever this teacher is making us do today will make our future better, so we should accept his words. Similarly, many people have many opinions about a person. If a person says that he hates you, then in such a situation I would say to you that first you should think about what is it in you that that person is hating you. If you have done something wrong, then you should accept it and you should accept that it is right to hate him because you have done something wrong and you should correct that thing.
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But if you have not done anything wrong and you do not wish ill for anyone, then no matter how much people hate you, you should not pay attention to those things at all, you should just focus on your actions. There are many people in the society who neither do anything good nor do they want anyone in the society to do good work and nowadays the number of such people is very high who want there to be unrest in the society. Such people not only stop you from doing the right thing but also think of making you like them by brainwashing you. One should stay away from such people and move forward by ignoring their words. If you keep taking their words to heart, then neither will you be able to do any good work and even something may happen which will send a wrong message to the society.
If someone hates you then let him hate you because if you feel that his hatred is without reason then you should not pay much attention to those things. If a person comes forward and says that he hates you then you should talk to him about the reason for his hatred and talk to him properly and if you feel that his hatred is without reason then you should explain to him that the hatred that he is talking about is without any reason and you can understand him a little bit but if you feel that that person will never understand and will always have the same mentality then you do not need to spend much brain, just ignore his words and keep moving forward in your life.
I have seen many people who cannot tolerate anyone hating them and when they feel that this person hates them, they go to that person and do wrong to him. Whereas this should not be done, you just have to sit with that person once and know all the reasons why he hates you and you either have to understand it yourself or explain to him what the truth is and if he still does not agree then you should leave it as it is and do not waste much time on him. I have also seen many people who hate even those people who do good work in the society and do good to the society. Just a few days ago, there is a mango tree near the place where I work, from where people keep coming and going and for a long time that road was getting damaged and there was a water tap at that place which was broken, so a person was cleaning that road and was trying to repair the broken part of the water pipe with the help of some solvent. Then a person came there whose age was probably more than 40 years and he started saying to the boy that hey, have you taken the contract of the municipality or are you getting some award for this work. Why are you working here, is this your responsibility. I felt very strange after listening to that person's words because the tone of his talk was so Indian as if that boy must be doing something wrong. Then that person went up the road but he started saying all sorts of wrong things about the boy to some people.
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If you want to be good in someone's eyes, then this can never happen because people's likes and dislikes keep changing and what will happen if you do this so that people don't hate you. People hate such great people, we are just ordinary people.
There is no need to take any legal action in this because all this happens according to one's own thinking. If such a rule is made even by mistake, then people in the society will take legal action against so many people that the court will be crowded every day. How will this not end for years? There is only one way to end these things and that is that you yourself have to ignore these things and fulfill the objectives of your life.
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Great point made. Ignoring the hatred around us is not that easy but at the same time it really helps if we can. And about the legal actions, Yes that is totally fine and you have the right to take legal action against something that is lawfully illegal, normal hate comments in speech seem too petty to be engaged in illegal dispute for.
It is a little difficult to ignore but if you make it a daily habit then in a short time you can ignore such people very easily and then their words will not have any effect on you.
Yes and I believe that's an important skill.
must needed skill
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