Single Parents Have To Struggle A Lot

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Parents play a very important role in the upbringing of a child. Whatever we are doing today and whatever we are is all because of our parents. Have you ever seen the lives of children who do not have parents and how difficult their future is? Even if those children get someone to feed them, but the upbringing that a parent does, hardly anyone else can do it. It is very important to have the support of parents because without them our existence is nothing. There are many children who have single parents and those parents know how difficult it is to raise a child. A mother is as important as a father to raise a child. It is very difficult for a single parent. For example, let us take a situation where there is a mother and she is a single parent. She has two children, both of whom are still young, so both the children need care. The mother has to get up early and after that she has to prepare breakfast for the children for school and also arrange breakfast for the whole family and then she herself has to go to work and comes back late in the evening and after that she has to arrange dinner and also has to see the condition of the children's studies and along with this she has to take care of the other members of the family as well. In such a situation you can think that what will happen if she is not able to pay proper attention to all the work and at this age the most important thing for the children is their studies and she will not be able to pay attention to it because you can see where is the time available. In such a situation if both the parents are together then it helps a lot in work and they can also pay proper attention to the children's studies and other things.

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When children grow up a little and they understand things, then the situation is quite different and they can take care of many things on their own, but at a young age, children need a lot of attention. Then it happens with children that they cannot be taken care of by anyone else and they need the support of their parents only. In many places, I have seen that both parents live separately due to their jobs and their children can live with only one parent, so here also, despite both parents being there, the children have to be taken care of by one parent alone because the conditions are such. In many places, I have also seen that one of the friends has to leave the job because the children are not taken care of properly. This thing is seen in many places that when a child is born and if there is no other person in the house to take care of them, then in such a situation the mother has to leave her job because taking care of the children is very important. The mother has to sacrifice her job to take care of the children. Therefore, it is not possible for a single person to take care of the children in the beginning and if the single parent is a father, then this thing becomes even more difficult because it is very difficult for a father to do all the work that a mother does.

The future of the children depends to a great extent on whether they are born to a single parent or both the parents have raised them together. Now as I have just told you that if a single parent is not able to pay enough attention to the children, then many times it happens that at a young age when children do not have much difference between right and wrong, there are many chances that their company may get spoiled or they may get addicted to wrong things, in such a situation it is very difficult to handle them because what all can a single parent do. Then when they grow up, those children become spoiled and then they have to face many problems. On the other hand, if both the parents take care of the children together, then in such a situation they can pay proper attention to the children and if they keep getting guidance at every step, then they will never fall into bad company and their future can be much better.
Actually, there are many such examples in the society nowadays where this thing happens in opposite way but such weather is seen in selected cases.
That is why if both parents are together then the child's upbringing is very good and his future will also be better.

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