Hello Hive Learners Community! Welcome to my blog. This world is filled with each type of people. Being a Social Animal, we have to find our peaceful niche. Toxic people are everywhere and we can't cull them. We have to make limitations and sometimes rules to stay with them. Even though toxic and bad people can be in the company of friends and family.
We have to sometimes reside with them because we didn't have any other option due to several circumstances and several factors. It becomes hard to disconnect from them. Today, I have decided to share my experience; I hope you will enjoy it.
Family Complications
In Pakistan, Nuclear Families are very common. Whatever the situation or whatever the conflicts will be! they are together generation after generation. They have to tackle each situation together. I'm living in a joint family, today I'm going to share my experience with toxic people in my family.
My family and my uncle's families have been living together for years. I have a cousin who always likes to fight with me. He always pretends to be an Elite Son. Sometimes, he fought with me on controlling things owned by my father. Daily, he has many conflicts and some abusive words. He is the man of the war. We all are tired of his toxic actions, and he is indeed a toxic person.
A few years ago, he was involved in a dance party with his friends. Police arrested him because it is illegitimate to bring call girls for the dance at any private police. Some of his friends were successful in leaving the place before the raid of the police at the spot. When the police arrested him, he nominated my name during the investigation that I was the boss of the party. The Investigation Officer called me and I was helping my mum in cooking in the kitchen. The police Investigation Officer demanded me to come to the police station and face the inquiry.
I was very worried and was thinking what had happened. Anyway, I attended the inquiry. I found my cousin in the jail. I was feeling sad to see this. The Police Investigation Officer disclosed the matter. I was clear that I was not there. My name was in inquiry due to my cousin. I called my father and then my mother and informed them about the situation. My parents became worried. My father called my uncle and informed him about his son and the disgusting situation. My uncle came after two hours. First, he scolded his son, and then he submitted a bail request for his son. I talked to my uncle about it. Instead of humiliating his son for this disrespectful action, he also scolded me. My cousin's uncle is equally part of all the sins that my cousin has committed. My uncle has a very soft corner for his son. He always tries to hide every wrong step taken by his son.
My father didn't want to see any separation in our family. He loves his brother a lot. Hence, he always tries to sort out the situation before anything happens in a big conflict. I and my mum are also suffering from the same situation. Even he knew this. My father believes in unity, and its strength. We are forced to stay together in this toxic family. We didn't have any other option and couldn't fight with my father. We can pray and hope, things will be Good because we are playing our role in the family's goodness.
This post is my entry for HL Weekly Featured Content Even When Toxic. I hope, you have enjoyed my post. Thanks!
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I think staying far from them is best option. Staying together doesn't called united. At least I don't see any unity there.