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There's that saying that everyone has an angry side but it can only be triggered. It doesn't matter how cool and patient we may look, we all have our limits to tolerating things from people. There are persons who are impatient and can't tolerate anything at all, and there are those who are so patient and can endure the behavior of people for a long time.
Impatient persons tend to sound rude to others but it's just their anger issues and this makes people disassociate themselves from them. Having a charisma of being patient is one lucky characteristic. They are always polite and would laugh over many things, they are very sociable, cheerful and helpful persons, and that's what makes people want to stay around them.
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Personalities vary in the society and it is these distinct characteristics that make up a society because, without anger in the society, they'll be no recognition of kind and patient persons. But it will sure be of higher advantage and good to you if you try to tolerate people. Don't get me wrong, you can talk to them and explain how you feel, it doesn't mean you should allow them take you for granted.
In anger, we do loose control of our words and behavior, and we end up regretting it later. Have you felt that way before? Well I have and so many times but it's end up regretting every time. I do try my best to stay calm but sometimes we just reach the limit that it gets really kind of impossible to step back.
MY EXPERIENCE WITH ANGER
Recently, I've not been in good terms with my roommate and that's because, she did something that made me so angry and it made me say things I didn't want to say and I regret it now. As a student, I'll always say that we are still dependent to an extent and we may not be able to fend for more than ourselves as we need support ourselves but my roommate never understands this. I'm a kid of person that likes sharing, I want you to feel as comfortable as I am if not more when you're around me.
I always give my roommate some part of food to eat whenever I cooked any meal, I didn't see it as mandatory but I felt like it's something nice to do to her. I wouldn't call her greedy but she never did the same thing I did in the aspect of also giving me some food when she cooks but I didn't see it as anything as I have enough to eat.
After my long class today, going home with hunger mixed feelings of pain as I missed a test and the yummy thoughts to eat the last portion of rice and stew I prepared on Saturday, I was given a huge surprise to open my pot and find out that the food was no longer there. I started contemplation if I had eaten it already and I couldn't remember ( but no my brain ain't that dumb) or something else. But I was sure I didn't.
Then I had ask her if anyone entered the room and ate my food when she said "oh!! I was hungry when I came back from class and I noticed you had some food so, I ate it I'm sorry but I had no choice" these where exactly her words and at that moment, I felt like burning down that room with my scream because I had no other option in my head but to explode.
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I expected her to apologize immediately but all she could say was that she thought I didn't want the food anymore, and she said all these standing in front of me. I was so angry that I slapped her . The fact that she didn't see it as anything and said it so nonchalantly made me more angry coupled with the hunger and pains in my tommy, I gave her a very serious warning to never come near my food and reminded her of how greedy and stingy she is. With that, she was just calm and and I left the room. After eating, I came back to the room to see that she has removed all her books from my table but I didn't give a shit them . But right now, I just regret saying those words to her, I might have gone too far right? But I just hope we get along again.
Thanks for reading to the end guys....I appreciate😊❣️
Oh my...I absolutely understand how it feels especially when you give a certain energy to a friendship and you don't get the energy back. She friendship might even feel one sided at times and she was absolutely feeling entitled when she noticed you were pissed. A little apology would have sufficed from her... I hate the feeling of regret afterwards
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