Parenting has become very difficult these days. It used to be very easy earlier but many things have changed nowadays. The first thing is technology which is growing very fast and the young generation has access to everything and you cannot even fool them. Earlier parents used to convince their children by lying but now times have changed. Now children are brilliant and we have to deal with them accordingly. If you ignore your children, they may fall into bad company. We must have seen this in the news how to deal with this or I should say this is what happened with young children. This generation falls into the trap of drugs and addiction. See how children get involved in all these things when they feel lonely and do not get proper guidance. If you keep your children aware of all these things and tell them about these things then they will not get involved in all these things.
By the way, a child learns everything from his surroundings. Children become like how their company is. If you teach them good habits from childhood, then they will also learn good things. If you are doing wrong things in front of children like smoking or drinking alcohol, then they will also learn the same. Yes, maybe don't do it in childhood but do the same when you grow up because they will have a desire from within to know how all these things are, they should try it at least once. By the way, when we were children, we all used to make mistakes and our parents used to scold us a lot and beat us too, but the times have changed, and beating children nowadays can create a very serious problem. One thing is that the patience of today's children is very low, especially if I talk about Gen Z. It has become more because most of their time is spent on the phone and in such a situation. They do not even do any work, they just remain stuck on the phone all the time and in such a situation, their aggression increases.
Many kids do wrong things but if their parents come to know about it then they should take strict action against it. We have seen in Hollywood movies that if their kids are caught doing something naughty then they snatch their phone or allow them to stay in their room for some days. If the kid does this nowadays then we can't say what the kid might do. See beating the kids is not a solution to the problem because in such cases the kids become even more deleted. If you see any kid doing something wrong then you should understand and make him aware of its ill effects. I will not say that all the kids these days are spoiled, at least they are quite cultured and stay away from drugs and other things and I will not say that doing drugs is a wrong thing, it is your life, you can do everything according to your wish but there is a limit to everything if you are crossing that limit then you might have to face its ill-effects too, nowadays we have seen how people fight with each other under influence of alcohol and even become enemies of each other's life, so, first of all, we should try to stay away from all these things, even if we consume alcohol or other stuffs then it should be used in limited because anything is right if done within the limit, in my heart if anything is done beyond limit then you may have to suffer its ill-effects.
See, what is the problem or the solution to some behaviour? If you see your children doing something wrong then you should understand that and make them aware of those things and you should talk to your children because if you do not talk to your children then they might get lonely and then they can fall into bad company. If you spend time with your children and talk to them then maybe they will also share their things with you and in this way, your bonding improves and maybe they will gradually start sharing everything with you and due to which you will not have to worry much.
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Parenting in this gen-z age is the most difficult. Most kids believe they know what they are doing and their parent's advice is outdated. It is so annoying, kudos to all the parents.
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It is true i seing as a father of 2 little girls, the bigger is annoying with have the phone everytime and i don't want see her like a dumb robot with a screen
If kids do anything wrong, then we should correct them and make them realize why it's wrong. Beating physically is not a good solution because I feel a friendly conversation is the best solution to correct them.
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Exactly! Kids learn from what they see. Setting a good example and using understanding over punishment works best these days.