In such a situation, there is no simple answer. Because no matter what, the MIL is still family and you'll still have to meet up at one time or the other.
I have a friend who's MIL was also giving her a hard time, her tactic was growing a tough skin and letting the woman know nothing she did could touch her.
It worked for her, but I don't know if it can work for everyone.
Thank you for this.
Yep, I have a different posture compared to my SIL strategy! He prefers to fight and stand by what he thinks is right. In that case is a catastrophic fight! he and my MIL had terrible fights, even before his wedding, the MIL almost prohibited his wife to marry him!!! lol . I just listen and try to give some advice to my wife...taking care that it is still her mother and somehow she protects her mother,