When it comes to finding true happiness, it can be ridiculously easy finding it for some people, and it can be an uphill task for others. Some people only need those around them to be happy for them to be happy as well, once something goes wrong and they’re not happy, they lose that immediately. And then, there are those whose happiness comes from what they personally achieve or do themselves. We all are built differently, that’s why what makes us happy varies from person to person.
And then, finding it is not the only thing we have to do. We also have to learn the art of keeping it. Some of us may be happy and after a while, make silly mistakes that will cost us our happiness. Like a person claiming to love their spouse, but at the first opportunity, goes ahead to cheat. When caught, they put it down as the devil’s fault. We just have to be careful so that no matter what hits us, we would never subconsciously sabotage our own happiness when saddled with the issues of life.
As for me, what makes me truly happy? Thankfully, it’s not just one thing. A number of things make me happy and fulfilled, and I can bask in that euphoria all day long anytime it happens.
Being with Family.
They are my favorite people in the world, so why won’t I love being with them? Whenever we meet, it’s always this mixture of fun and serious talks. This is something we don’t do too often because life has spread us across the country, but whenever we do meet under the same roof, it’s always a banger. We can spend hours together talking about nothing at all or talking about things that will move the family forward.
And should I talk about the food? My Mom is the best cook in the world, and I’m second only to her. Eating as a family will always beat eating alone; anytime and any day. I’ve been eating alone, and I’ve eaten with family and I can tell you that the latter beats the former hands down. I’m sure there’re those who can testify to this.
Sadly though, such meetings don’t really happen because everyone is still trying to build themselves. Now, we all meet up at least once a year, and I really hope that it increases over time. Because it won’t make sense at all for all of us to make money but we’ll be too busy and occupied to spend time with our family.
Doing what makes me happy.
This should be a no-brainer, right? Well, you’ll be surprised at how many people don’t really subscribe to this. Either intentionally or just life being mean to them. True happiness for me is basically doing what makes me happy, and doing what makes me happy is me doing what I want when I want and without any outside influence.
I want to work, but only because I’m bored and I want to; not because I have to work. I want to see movies and go out and have some fun, even on a Monday morning! I’m not looking to be filthy rich, but I sure as hell want to be able to afford whatever kind of lifestyle I want. If I want a private jet to fly into another country, then I’ll easily do that. Meanwhile, I still want to be able to walk on the street without having to look over my shoulders for any reason whatsoever.
Like I said, I just want to do what I want.
Sadly though, such a lifestyle is actually expensive. While I enjoy what I do, there I days I just want to sleep in and wake up by two in the afternoon. But I remember I have clients who have paid me and are counting on me to deliver, so I push myself up and still give them my best. And at this point, quitting work won’t even make me happy because it’ll only render me broke which is something I don’t want at all. The exact opposite of happiness, if you ask me.
Anyway, what can we do? I do know that I have my vision for my life, and I’m committed to pushing myself in that direction. For now, I’m happy doing the work I love and using it to set myself up. And as I keep moving forward, I’m certain more reasons to be happy will keep coming up. Seeing how pro-happiness I am, I’m sure they’ll fall right into my lane.
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When we do not give up, everything will fall into places. True happiness is derived from doing what we love and enjoy and which brings peace to us. Family also are our source of true happiness because seeing them creates that peace in us. I can't wait to meet my family soon and I know it would be another amazing moment again.
Yeah... family has that ability. Being surrounded by people who genuinely love and want the best for you is really a great feeling.
Majority of us are treading the same path to happiness but lack the ways of sustaining it.
Honestly, staying happy shouldn't be a difficult thing to do but a lot of people don't find happiness in ordinary things anymore.
Above all, I choose contentment with everything that makes me happy and have been able to maintain/keep my happiness intact. Although, there are bad days but when happiness is genuine, the feeling will always prevail.
Yeah... contentment is the backbone of happiness. Many people find the happiness, but then begin to hunger for more than necessary. And that robs them of the happiness.
This is why so many of us are working now so that we can enjoy later in the future. Money is needed. Money itself alone is a source of happiness...
I love money
Money is needed indeed, if not how can you be happy on an empty stomach?😂
It's good for one to identify what makes him happy and for you not only one thing.
You mentioned family as one of the sources of true happiness. I completely agree with you. Aside the issue of good meals from mumcy, that fellowship and relationship is just amazing.
Thanks for sharing sir and I look forward to read more of your post.
Yeah... the bond between parents and their kids, siblings... everyone coming together will always be a fun moment!
I think we should try to find our happiness from little little things which can help us to be happy easily.
I believe that being with family is we can gather some beautiful moments and it's very useful to be happy.
Hehe. In your case you can't do it in everyday because you have many other things to do. But I think you already made e balance.
Yeah... balance is one important thing I've forced myself to learn. That way, I've been able to derive happiness in almost everything I do.
Thank you🤗
The happiness that comes from having one's family around is so great and can't be compared to any other. The peace and harmony, the smile and laughter among siblings,etc are always great and natural.
Now I miss my mom's food more when you talked about yours😅
Hehe... go and eat Momsy food biko... No one will hold it against you.😂
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Thank you!
Those are some great points you have stated above. It certainly should not be hard to attain true happiness. Happiness is all around us. It is therefore up to us to devise a simple means to attain it.