Gone are the days that I did not like testing people that I mingle with, the older I grow, I realize quality matters, not quantity... So If the opportunity arises to test my friends, I will because it is better to know now than when you really need their help and they will be nowhere to be found.
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One thing about me is, that I do not like asking for help because I feel indebted to my helpers, if it is financial help like borrowing money from them, even after paying them back, I still feel grateful and indebted to them and still want to return the favor in multiple folds.
There is a saying that karma is real, the good we did will always come back to us, and so as the bad things we did... I have written the story of my humble beginning on the hive platform and how my phone was faulty that I spent hours creating posts, I also mentioned how my mentor back then borrowed me money which I added to my savings to get a new phone which made my work easier on this platform... he also messaged me this year, he was in his final year and needed a new laptop for his project because the old one is faulty... his money was not completed and he needed my support...I was also happy to support him with money because he also turned up for me when I needed his help. I didn't lend him the money, I gave him... He reaped the reward of his kindness back in those years and I was glad I could return the favour.
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Just imagine if he had not turned up for me back then, he would never have been so free to come to my dm... this is something many people do not realize the good deed we do now is not for the present but for the future purpose because not everyone will remain at the top forever and we should treat those people below us well because they might be above us tomorrow...
When it comes to bad eggs, If someone hurts me, I do not hurt them back, I just distance myself from their bad energy! the same goes for people who just want to collect without giving, people with an entitlement mentality, and any other negativity you can think of, those kind of people are leeches that you will see around when things are good for you but the moment things go bad, they will be the first to disappear from your life... It is people who are there in your bad times that should also be with you during the good days.
If you give me attitude, I ignore you like you never existed... you can't get peace when you are all for war. This generation we are now if you are too gentle, people will use you and dump you... They will leave your heart shattered, am not preaching against peace, it is okay to be gentle and nice but to the right people, give war to the bad ones, let them feel the sting of their actions!.*
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This is something I was telling someone some days ago. When someone hurts you, there’s no point hurting them back. I really don’t understand the reason why people take revenge and what it does to them… I wish I knew.
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You said it well, Whatever we do to others somehow come back to us. I noticed it many time in real life and you shared another example here. That's why we should try to help others if we are capable.
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When it comes to asking people for help, I’m very bad at it. I’m always scared to ask for help. But I’m happy that you helped the guy because he turned up for you when you needed him
This used to be me as well, but then I'm leaning towards peace, forgiveness and tranquility even if it's difficult, it's a gift that only God is capable of giving as it's not easy to forget betrayal. I also feel indebted to people who helped me, even if it was just a borrowed sum of money
Quality over quantity 💯💯. These days friendships and relationships are parasitic, most people only stick with you for the benefits that comes with you.