There is one particular statement most ladies says when it comes to relationship, it could be during courtship or marriage, they say it is not always about money, they want the man's attention but unfortunately he does not give them what they want....
This got me thinking, why are ladies so selfish? there is a lot going on in a man's mind, how he is going to make money, take care of your needs and the children if there is any already.... This thought is enough to keep a man busy and occupied but you that he is doing everything for still think he owes you romance and stuffs like that without being considerate of what he is going through...
As a man, we want a good life for our family and that is what is mostly on our mind, and as a lady, the best you can do is, Be their peace of mind
When your guy makes you comfortable, always meeting up with your demands, give him kudos and not that money is not everything bullshit because if he stop giving you those things, you will complain as well and that is when you will realize his sacrifice and things he went through to make you so comfortable...
Do not rely on your man to make you happy, infact do not depend on anyone to make you happy as that would make you unfulfilled, no one can truly make you fully happy more than yourself, instead of trying to put more responsibilities on him, you should try to ease him with certain things that will make him happy...
This is when what man want comes in
Peace of mind: Every man want a happy home, when we come back from our working place, we don't want to come back to meet a nagging wife nor do we want to come back and meet someone giving us attitude... It really doesn't help in anyway, that is more burden to bear...
sex: It is a well known thing that men love sex and most time, men derive more pleasure than the ladies from sex, and women complain about their husband not trying to make them feel the pleasure, don't blame the men, it is hard to pleasure a lady honestly but it is very easy to satisfy a man with sex.... Don't get mad at him for not being able to satisfy you, satisfy him and let that be your own sacrifice in the relationship...
Neat and Tidy: As much as some men don't make a big deal out of this, but really men like it when they house is very clean, so if you are doing this, making his house clean and home beautiful, trust me such a guy would never want to lose you because that void will be hard to fill when you are gone...
- Respect : Men love to be respected, when he talks, listen to him, if he doesn't want you to do something, obey him, we love to be in control and being in a relationship with someone who never listen to you or picks fight when you tell her want you don't want is a big turn off...
Aside what i have mentioned above, try to understand your man... those four are common in most guys but still there are more things your guy may like or not want, get to know him and be the angel he needs, do not become a burden or add to his problems....
Not to forget... MONEY IS EVERYTHING so ladies, CUT THAT CRAP of saying money is not everything....
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I was touched so much when you said that men are burdened with how to make their family comfortable and yet women want to heap the burden of romance on them. I quiet understand this. They toil day and night to put food on the table and sometimes they don't have the time to learn the latest sex styles.
But then you sounded selfish when you said that women should manage an unsatisfying sex from their men. Do you know that if a man cannot hit it right over the time the woman will turn into an angry woman. And an angry woman is a nagging woman. Men should stop thinging about their own cumming and forget about their wives. They should try and make them happy too. Sex is meant to be enjoyed by both parties not one.
you know right that to please a woman sexually ain't easy, like women don't get to orgasm just by sex, well most ladies don't , also i don't think it is healthy to do what can make them cum fast, some men do this but it is not healthy......
Baba just break the coconut on the rock here,especially the sexual aspect. Man loved that thing die
yes😁 and not giving them what they like is what makes some to be unfaithful
Exactly, but some ladies said it's not food. Make them deh play
By the way this world can't run without money at all yes I will agree with you when human husband wife shoes don't give tension to each other then stories become bad. If this world understands, there is only respect that we can give to each other, And we can respect each other, The relationship between husband and wife is very special, both of them should take care of each other.
at all, without money, things become difficult
Yeah.
Heheh i knew the video you posted will birth something lol...
Big man lol
lol most ladies are like this and they need to know they are not on point
Dang!
This means I have everything a man wants 😃
That is what they say but become someone totally different when relationship start😏
Lol
Not me 🤣
ladies crave for attention a lot without really bothering about what men really go through within, they always want you to know what they want and think at the same time. you already hit the nail on the head though but one thing is that, if you as a person cant make yourself fully happy, what give you that assurance that someone else will
they dont care all, they are selfish and this is one thing i dislike
You've stated facts about men but I think, in many relationships, it takes time for both men and women to understand each other, grow mentally and emotionally strong in order to maintain a healthy and balanced relationship since both have some needs that neither of them should overlook.
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Isn't the list too small for what a man want? However, peace of mind speaks a lot of it
yea i just mentioned the most important
Yeah, they're truly important
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