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Here we go today with another blog something about the children and the parents relations. As all the children are living with their parents, so I think you guys might have also seen that some parents are giving a lot of space to their child whatever they wanna do, they can do by their own. Or some parents are not giving a single space to their children and noticing them at every single point whatever they are doing in their live. You guys might have seen in the society that now unfair it is and how wrong it impacts on the children thinking. So the main question is that how much space should be given to the child which does not impact much on them in both the ways.
If see practically that if some parents are giving extra space to their child then I think their child won't be in their control and he/she might don't even listen to parents and might not even respect them which is absolutely wrong so this is one of the biggest mistake that parents are giving extra space to their child. And on the other side if we see that parents are not giving a simple space to take the child their own decision then their child might get frustrate and they won't even like their parents to listen and they might also start telling lie and hide everything from them. So this is also one of the disadvantage of not giving space to them,
But now it will be mind a question there, that how should we give them space in such a manner that they will stay in control and they might don't even lie to you. So it's very simple from my side. As my parents have never ever warn me to do anything which I won't until it's wrong they have always give me space, they have always give me my time to think and plan and take the action after discussing them. Like they have never ever tried to control me for my future or life. They freely just said to me that do whatever you want to do, until you are on the wrong path.
So I just want to tell you guys that give the children that much space as much he want, don't go over him, don't go less on him. Just go on them as much they want. This is the best experience which I have got in my life and now I know how should I control my children in my hands. Just let me do whatever they wanna do, but before they know how to deal with life make sure you learn them how to walk and how to be good in manner, and what is right and wrong for them. Once they know about their life about the right and wrong things they should get some space and let them own find the purpose of their life whatever they want to do. This is the best thing to deal with today's children.
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Hoje, vamos apresentar mais um blogue sobre as relações entre os filhos e os pais. Como todas as crianças vivem com os pais, penso que também já devem ter reparado que alguns pais dão muito espaço aos filhos, o que quer que eles queiram fazer, podem fazê-lo sozinhos. Ou alguns pais não dão um único espaço aos filhos e reparam neles em todos os momentos, independentemente do que fazem na sua vida. Já devem ter visto na sociedade como isso é injusto e como tem um impacto negativo no pensamento das crianças. Por isso, a questão principal é saber quanto espaço deve ser dado à criança que não tenha muito impacto sobre ela em ambos os sentidos.
Se vermos praticamente que se alguns pais estão a dar espaço extra ao seu filho então penso que o seu filho não estará no seu controlo e ele/ela pode nem sequer ouvir os pais e pode nem sequer respeitá-los o que é absolutamente errado por isso este é um dos maiores erros que os pais estão a dar espaço extra ao seu filho. E, por outro lado, se virmos que os pais não estão a dar um espaço simples para a criança tomar a sua própria decisão, então o seu filho pode ficar frustrado e nem sequer vai gostar que os pais o ouçam e também pode começar a dizer mentiras e esconder tudo deles. Por isso, esta é também uma das desvantagens de não lhes dar espaço,
Mas agora, a questão que se coloca é: como é que lhes devemos dar espaço de forma a que se mantenham no controlo e nem sequer nos mintam? Por isso, da minha parte, é muito simples. Como os meus pais nunca me avisaram para fazer nada que eu não fizesse até ser errado, sempre me deram espaço, sempre me deram tempo para pensar, planear e tomar medidas depois de as discutir. Nunca tentaram controlar-me em relação ao meu futuro ou à minha vida. Eles limitaram-se a dizer-me livremente que fizéssemos o que quiséssemos, até estarmos no caminho errado.
Por isso, só vos quero dizer que dêem às crianças todo o espaço que elas quiserem, não as ultrapassem, não as diminuam. Dêem-lhe o espaço que ela quiser. Esta é a melhor experiência que tive na minha vida e agora sei como devo controlar os meus filhos nas minhas mãos. Mas antes de eles saberem como lidar com a vida, certifica-te de que lhes ensinas como andar e como ser bom na maneira de ser, e o que é certo e errado para eles. Depois de saberem o que é certo e errado na sua vida, devem ter algum espaço e deixá-los encontrar o objetivo da sua vida, seja ele qual for. Esta é a melhor forma de lidar com as crianças de hoje.
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Parenting is very tactical and complex as well and that is why some of them overprotect their children. I am not a parent yet but I think if parents can listen and understand what their children want they would know how to give space without losing control over their kids because most parents believe giving orders is the only way to stay active in their children’s lives which is wrong. Even though they have to give orders sometimes to remind their children that they are still active.