life in medical school: my first relationship experience

in Hive Learners2 years ago

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This is me above with a female colleague

It's been a tough ride especially for those of us in medical college where the lives of most students revolves around—sleeping, eating, and reading—a cycle which doesn't seem to end anytime soon.

However, about a year ago, I decided to ease myself off the whole stress and break free from the chain of boredom by diving into "love".

I'm the guy in the middle engaging in a conversation with my female colleague

This was strange to my colleagues—and everyone who knew me. It was the first time I ever got into a relationship with a girl(Julie). I was so enthusiastic about the whole thing. We would usually hold hands and walk side by side, attend cinemas, and relationship programs together.

It got to a piont I cut off from most of my male colleagues. Was it an unwise thing to do? Or are these the spontaneous events that come along with being in a relationship?
Well, I'm definitely not experienced enough to answer these question.

while walking or taking a casual stroll, I would constantly smile to myself as though I had run crazy. People would usually pass by and give this awful, pitiful glare. Only then, did I return to my senses to realize I had been smiling sheepishly just because of a girl.

It wasn't long after, my smile transformed to sadness, laughter turned to grief, and happiness to sorrow. I realized the attention I gave her was no longer reciprocated, my calls were not returned, my texts were ignored.

I became suspicious, worried, and sad. It affected my mental health as I lost appetite and even my interest to study.

Days went by, I neither saw nor heard from Julie—only to see her a certain day, enclosed within the arms of another guy. Our eyes met, but in pretence, she acted like I was a stranger. This was the genesis of my heartbreak tale. We never reconciled and till today, she hangs around with the same guy.

Perhaps I was foolish to submit to love. perhaps I should have given only a portion of my heart to love.

least I forget,
love is a beautiful thing. However, never underestimate the effect and inevitability of heartbreaks.

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 2 years ago  

attend cinemas

What a romantic gesture 😍

Well, I'm definitely not experienced enough to answer these question

Maybe I'll be in better position to answer those questions😂

Loved your closing remark on this post.
Nicely written

Being a medical student I can definitely agree with this cycle of eat sleep and read. Falling in love is a beautiful thing for sure but as a medical student it really cost a lot as we always have shortage of time and that too being ended up in such a tragic way is really a big cost one has to pay.
I hope you have been recovered yet, Goodluck dear!

Yes it's not easy atall, the whole combination and everything.
I have fully recovered and I'm doing great. I'm currently focused on building myself and enhancing every skill and talent I've acquired.

Thank you for the comment and observations

That's great!
Keep growing ❤️