Argument is inevitable in this life, No matter how you try to avoid it. Cause as long as you go out of your house in the morning to your office, market, business place or just to set out, you might get into an argument with somebody, it can be the price of goods that you want to purchase, then in your office, it's can be your colleague or even a client.
Sometimes the argument can be with your family members over food, sweeping, or doing the dishes. It can be with a friend or friends over sport, fashion, business just about anything at all. Sometimes you could argue for the fun of it. I have argued for the fun of it that later wanted to turn into a serious fight.
How Do I Settle An Argument?
Most time if I engage in an argument with a person and am trying to let you see reason with what am saying and you refuse but insist on your own, at times I will just pause and listen to you but if am very sure of what am saying, I will totally ignore you, even walk away from you. If it is with my loved one or friend and am not in the mood for the back and forth, I will just agree with you, so that peace will reign.
Although some people, if you agree with them quickly, they get offended, while some will tell you, so you know the truth and you just choose to argue. Sweetheart, you are wrong, I don't have the strength to follow you argue that's why
DO I FIGHT BACK AND REFUSE TO BACK DOWN OR SIMPLY WALK?
These here almost cost me my life and since then, the moment you want to engage me in an argument I will refuse and leave the place for you. It was the burial of my uncle, my favorite one at that. On the day of his burial, everybody came down that's my mother sisters, and brother with their children.
My aunt in Lagos came back the same day with his son, I have always been the chef of the house and the peacemaker, so on the day of the burial, am doing the cooking but I need help. My mom's elder sister says that her children don't use firewood, so they can't assist me. Then my mother's younger sister refused her son's assisting because of what the elder sister said. I just behave like a fool And do all the cooking and leave the dishes there.
I was the elder of the grandchildren, and a heated argument ensued between my mother's elder sister and my mother, when her children refused to do the dishes and she expected me to do it, I came to make peace but she had to say the most awful words and we started arguing before my mom younger sister and her started fighting.
I regretted ever arguing with her because I was injured in the process and was rushed to the hospital. Her action alone brought a long-term grudge. Now I don't bother arguing anymore, I just walk away, you can just win but I will still do what's on my mind.
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oh sad to hear about the injury that happened due to heated arguments in the family gathering, that's is why i always say to avoid the arguments as much as can. it's for our own benefits.
Thank you dear