While all you said are well thought of and analytic, I still maintain that there is a certain age where you can tell your child about the pros and cons of their action alone. Correction by cane is not wrong, but how the cane is used is the problem. A child between the ages of 2 to 9 or 10 psychologically links pain to "do nots" or "dos". A child at the age of reasoning understands dialogue more.
And so, we can not totally rule out the rod here, especially when children are below the age of reasoning.
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Yh, training a child isn't an easy feat at all. Sometimes I get really confused on the right way to do it.
I also believe that ones character also affects the use of cane, if you are someone that has anger issues then just try avoiding touching a cane, because you might get carried away one day.
You're certainly right. That's the difficulty of a person with anger issues being a parent. And it is likely to affect the children's upbringing.