LOVE, AT FIRST SIGHT (part 1) Let's Discuss, Does It Truly Exist??

in Hive Learners2 years ago

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I understand that "LOVE"❤️ is a complicated subject, but many curious minds are on a quest to unravel the mystery surrounding it.

The word LOVE is the most commonly used in today's world. However, you may be surprised to learn that many people use the term without fully comprehending what it means.

For generations, you will agree with me that philosophers, poets, writers, and scientists have debated the definition of love, and various people and groups have fought over it.

While most people agree that love implies strong feelings of affection, there are numerous disagreements about its precise meaning, and one person's "I love you" may mean something entirely different to another.

Someone described LOVE As "A sudden, dramatic feeling of attraction and respect".

I also came across another definition of Love that struck a chord with me. 'Love is to like another adult very much and to be romantically and sexually attracted to them,' she said.

My subtle submission will be, does this imply that there is no love if we are not sexually compatible? Keep that thought in mind.

You're probably wondering what my definition could be at this point. Alright here is my definition of LOVE ❤️💓💕

"Love is a deep and strong knowledge of attraction for someone or something that brings you to a state of giving unconditional care and sacrifices,"

In my opinion... If you read carefully, you will notice that I was very careful with my word choice, which is because there are many words people use to define love that I believe not to be correct.

Feeling, emotion, desire, are few examples of such words. Love is more than just a feeling, it is not merely an emotion. These words make Love seem less than it should be.

I believe that love is both DEEP and STRONG💪 . There is always an ATTRACTION to love, and there is always a KNOWLEDGE of its existence. Love does not just happen to us; we are acutely aware of its presence. Above all, love dwells in UNCONDITIONAL's palace. You will agree with me that when LOVE ❤️ enters, conditions leave.

Many people have spoken to me about TRUE LOVE. The question that kept rising in my mind is, Does TRUE LOVE exist? If you answered "Yes," it means you believe there is FAKE LOVE.

The truth is that Love is always true and never fake. If you have ever had a love that appears to be fake, it was never Love. Love is inherently true. We frequently mistake Lust and Infatuation for Love.

Love is difficult to put into words. It is the most potent force known to mankind. It is a mutual, extreme feeling based on trust in which you are willing to go to any length for the person you love, no matter how painful it is.

It is unconditional and genuine concern for someone and everything about them, regardless of their flaws.

Whenever I have the opportunity to speak about Love, I emphasize that Patience is a virtue when it comes to Love. Finding Love requires a great deal of patience, and Love should never leave you feeling rushed.

Love is a gradual process that occurs over time. It is unconditional and genuine. It is the readiness to make sacrifices for someone. It requires a lot of selflessness and patience, and it grows with time.

This statement above makes me wonder if LOVE, AT FIRST SIGHT, is real. Is it a myth, or does it exist?

It is often difficult to distinguish between love and lust. Both are associated with physical attraction and an intoxicating rush of feel-good chemicals, as well as an often overwhelming desire to be closer to another person, but only one is long-lasting and genuine: LOVE.

Every enquiring mind will wonder how possible it is to fall in love with someone you know nothing about at first sight.

Let's examine what many consider to be, LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT.

Love, at first sight, is commonly interpreted as falling in love with a person upon meeting him/her for the first time.

Something must have happened in this first meeting or at the point of meeting to cause your subconscious to become attracted to his/her person.

It's easy to believe that two strangers can fall in love the first time they meet in the euphoria of a new romance. But is it true that love at first sight exists?

Allow me to share some definitions I've come across about Love at first sight.

Someone described love at first sight as 'the feeling you get when you don't want a moment to end because you feel a connection with another person that you haven't felt before'. Wow!

Love at first sight, according to Mary Justin, is a strong, intense "electrifying type of feeling" that is the result of chemistry between two people. "It can be very ecstatic and exhilarating," she says.

My very simple definition of Love, At First Sight, is "IT DOESN'T EXIST 😃,". I notice the surprise on your face right now. The truth is, you cannot fall in love with someone at first sight. However, you can admire or have a crush on someone at first sight.

If love is a deep, strong attraction accompanied by a great deal of unconditional sacrifice, I submit that it is not something that can be found at first glance, nor can you give such sacrifice to a stranger when you are not offering charity.

You can like and be infatuated with someone at first sight, but you can't love them. Love is constructed and it grows over time.

Every current relationship began with a simple attraction to the other partner.

Whatever you felt on your first date with each other could have been Lust or Infatuation. The love you have now for him/her develops over time.

What is your submission on this topic?

I will like to hear from everyone. Let's Discuss

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