I have also encountered a lot of funny reactions and excuses from loan defaulters. As you rightly said, some of them will avoid you. There was a time I needed to call someone (a former classmate) to ask for the name of one of our lecturers but she didn't pick my call because she was owing me. I had to send her a message that I wasn't calling to ask for my money. She accused me of embarrassing her. And has she paid the loan now? For where?
Another common annoying excuse from loan defaulters is that "even Nigeria is in debt". What nonsense!
Delinquent people can be funny. Some of them will only remind you of the money they are owing when they want to ask for more loan. Like "I know am owing you 12k and I am planning to pay it very soon. But can add 8k to it and I'll pay the total amount at once." If anyone throws in that card, I'll just smile and change the topic.
Now, I don't lend people an amount I can't afford to lose. Also, if you ask me for a loan and I don't trust you, I'll direct you to some loan apps. And if you complain that the loan comes with an interest, I'll offer to pay the interest when you pay the main loan amount, period!
People can be so funny and weird when it comes to paying the money they owe and some will even make you feel bad for asking for your own money, you have witnessed a lot of things from these debtors...
Meanwhile, i checked your blog and you haven't been posting for some months, what could be the reason?
Thanks for your observation. I joined a few months ago and I am actually building my visibility. I believe when I am more visible, more people will read my posts. Secondly, I have issues with hashtags. I want to assume that the more hashtags I add to my post, the more people will see the post. What hashtags do you suggest I add to my posts?
Many thanks