Bro. Even though you had promised her, I feel she doesn't care much about you outside what she'll benefit. For her not to chat you up is a good evidence that all she wanted was the money. After a long time and the first thing she ask is money. I wouldn't give honestly, not promising would have been a better way
That's what I concluded too, Sha I have learnt my lessons and I promise to just cut ties with her.. I can keep someone who only keeps me for what she can benefit..
Thanks for reading sir
Good you've learned, and that's the important thing
True boss, thanks for showing up