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RE: FEELING REJECTED? THERE IS A WAY OUT!

in Hive Learners2 years ago

The stone that was rejected has become the head of the corner. The feeling of rejection is really bad, and not everyone can easily cope with it, however we have no option than to move on. Imagine the fire that filled your heart that moment you decided to give the job a try😊 only to come and get a bad news at your very first attempt. I know different thoughts must have ran through your mind, especially that you were not too experienced, at a point like that giving up might look like the only option to someone that is not resilient. For someone like me I can easily conclude that the man perceived that I was only but a learner that was why he rejected me and for that reason, it will only take God to motivate me again.😂

Thank God the NO didn't quench the fire to try in you. We miss many opportunities in life because of our inability to try again and again. We need to learn how to put what is in the past where it belongs and move on with life. Had it been you gave up , you would not have gotten into the juicy part of the work, now I believe you are a boss in the filed and can mentor someone on that aspect because you have experience there.

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Man you said reasonable words. People miss great opportunities because they don't try again. And most times rejections are likely blessings in disguise because we don't know what awaits us.

 2 years ago  

I said that from experience sir, I can't count how many times good opportunities passed me by because I was scared of being rejected again. I was scared of going through the same pain for the second time but the day I broke out of it, I became a strong man and not only succeeded but leant a lesson the that states everyday is not Christmas. Bad days are sure to come, and incase they come, it is just to face them and keep moving.

Wow!! This is like the visit of a president to me, when I saw your comment I was shocked at first, I thought I had committed an offence 😁, until I viewed it and saw that it was a reply. Only heavens knows how happy I am to have you reply my comment. I am grateful sir🙏🙏🙏 thanks a lot.

Lol visit from a president. You make me laugh. There is not much difference between us anyways. I read your comment and it made quite a lot of sense and I had to reply.

Committed an offense? Smiles. I won’t have upvoted the comment if that is so.

Keep making great engagements.

 2 years ago  

Thank you very much sir, this is more than encouragement. I won't take it for granted. I really appreciate your response 🙏🙏🙏❣️❣️❣️♥️🥰

 2 years ago  

My dear, as a beginner in that bussinness, that kind of rejection is enough for me to be demoralized. Oh yes same thought that the man noticed that I am a learner ran through my mind, however, I wanted him to tell me why but he refused. Perhaps he does not want me to feel bad about his reasons but his rejection alone hurts badly.

If not that I was determined to make money, I would have made a U-turn from then , but no , I refused to accept defeat 😂😂

Thanks for dropping by and leaving a yummy comment 🤗🤞

 2 years ago (edited) 

Perhaps he does not want me to feel bad about his reasons but his rejection alone hurts badly.

Sorry about that. If you were not hurt, we will have to take you for a check-up. It is very normal to feel bad after being rejected but your next action is what really matters. And the beautiful story is you were too determined to make money,🤣 therefore rejection is too small to stop you. It has to give way.

You are always welcome mom🥰🤗