Hi family 😍
Thank you guys for engaging my previous post, everything were not and will not be taken for granted. I appreciate those who would still engage the post after reading this also.
Like I said in my previous post, I joined this platform September, planned on always updating here before the unforseen happened. Please if you do not understand what I'm trying to insinuate in this post, kindly go through the previous for a better understanding.
So, the story is more of a scam, it affected me mentally, financially 😅 academically, almost all areas. I totally lost trust in humans but then I just have to be more watchful and trust less where necessary.
I feel more relieved pouring out all my mind out on this awesome platform, if I'm able to pour them all out in this post, I'd be very glad else it's everyday I'll come on here and rant for some time on the same issue😂
But to be factual, I had to let go of all my fear to trust, because what can I do without the help of people? Especially the ones around me.
A bad egg amidst 10 does not make the remaining eggs bad.
I had to calm down and take what happened to me as fate, it was meant to happen, and I have learnt my lessons in a very hard way, it was only a normal thing.
I have forgiven him, money tends to reveal the concealed parts of humans, even though this money hasn't been his, right from the onset, but then, what could I have done? I could have arrested him, Made the school authorities know about his atrocious behavior Or even go as far as rusticating him in the university. I can definitely do that, it's either he returns all the money or he gets rusticated, but NO!
To be very honest, if the people around you cannot trust you with their money, Jesus! that's a very very bad feature, why? Money now is like a soul, you give 10 people money to feed, you have saved ten souls and if I can trust you with all my money, I have definitely given my life to you, that's just the simple explanation to me.
So I saw no way helping him broadcast his bad side to the whole university especially his department, at least, we've had good times together too😆.
I'm not trying to justify his actions, but I'd rather just let the issue slide than keep malice with him. If I see him today, I'll greet him like nothing has happened but you see the relationship as of old has already been stabbed.😩
I know someone somewhere has been hurt one way or the other, let's find it in our hearts to discard and let go off all our pains. Always remember what they did, never forget, just learn and move on. I love you guys❤️
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It is very good for you to forgive him, although I know that it must not have been an easy decision. Just be careful of who you trust moving forward.
Exactly my point, thank you for seeing in my perspective.
You are welcome