Every human that exists comes from one family or the other, in the society today there are those who the society call them bastards and I stand to say that there are no bastards anywhere what we just have are irresponsible father's or mothers. Everyone immanates from one home or the other even those that claim that fail from the sky.
Aside people who are faced with biological challenges that is those who are unable to give birth to kids even after going through the popular IVF everyone is faced with the choice to the number of kids they want from home. The number of kids that any couple can have depends on their personal agreement as I don't believe there are kids who came as a result of mistakes. There are men who like many children so some of them go as far as getting married to more than one wife. In the old days children are used as workers in the farm and as fighters. So the more the merrier according to them, those kids becomes a source of defence to them.
Well, back in the days the cost of taking care of twenty kids is not to be compared to what it takes to take care of a child today. Parents who have fifty children in the 90s in this present time it may be equivalent to taking care of 1 or two children. The price of things have greatly increased and personally it is not in the number any longer but the quality one is able to impact into the kids.
Coming from a family that is not too large and not too small I was wishing to give birth to six children before now. O boy! The way things are going presently, I have come to review that and resolve that it is not in the amount of kids that one have but the quality I am able to impact into the life's of these kids. Many parents are so carried away with the mind of hustling for what the kids will eat and they children are left to care for themselves and most of these children are not morally sound which the other way impacts the community negatively.
Let's say I have everything I need today and money is not in anyway an issue, I will still maintain my stand. Children needs lots of attention which when they are many they study of each of them maybe difficult, so it is better we have them just few. Money is not everything so I will not allow myself to be deceived that I can provide their needs financially and forget the other aspects which is so important for a child to gain stability in all that he does.
The family is the smallest unit of the society and I see a dear need to return to impacting positive family values, the family is a typology of the society. Most families are not doing well that is why we have this level of decadence existing in our society today.
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My dear, you are few and that is the opposite of my own family. We full ground. Hahaha 😂
Hahahaha, at least you know the difference between the two
My dear the economy is something else oo 😂, just give birth to the number of kids you can take care of, the economy is not economing again 😂
Is that English for me? It's not smiling at all
You don't have to take it serious ooo, it's just normal 9ja English abi you're not Nigerian? 😅
And what I meant is that things are no longer the same and things are much more expensive now, so it's wise to give birth to the number of kids you can afford to take care of . Do you get now?
I didn't miss understand you are all...and I said things are more serious now, so we just need them little according to our capacity.
Thanks for your input
If we talk about the expenses of today's children, then a small family is better because the expenses of everything, including the education of these children, have become very high, which is difficult for a common man to afford.
That's it,if one actually want the best for the kids so it's better to go for little
The cost of taking care of kids now is crazy compared to the way it was decades ago. My grandma gave birth to 10 children. The best is to know what you can handle.
10 woow! How many years did it take here? Just go for what you can handle dear
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